In this deeply personal conversation with TJ Lor, Ruti Mejia shares her experience of coming out as a lesbian and Two-Spirit woman to her immigrant parents, both former church ministers, and the emotional journey that followed. Drawing strength from Indigenous teachings, trusted friends, and an extended family of community members, Ruti reflects on the courage it took to live openly, the unexpected tenderness of her mother's response, and the freedom she has found in being fully herself.

In this deeply personal conversation, Nicole Staples reflects on growing up gay in a community where acceptance was not always easy, building a life with her longtime partner, and finding unexpected purpose through motherhood and foster care. Joined by her mother, Carol Staples, Nicole shares stories of family, resilience, and the ways caring for children who have experienced trauma has challenged her to confront her own past and embrace the life she has built.

In this episode of Joy of Being, Xue shares his experience growing up Hmong and queer within a family and religious community shaped by traditional expectations. He reflects on coming out, navigating difficult conversations with his parents, and finding healing through time, understanding, and renewed relationships. Through his involvement in organizing queer BIPOC gatherings in the Twin Cities, Xue also explores the importance of friendship, chosen family, and creating spaces where people can feel welcomed, connected, and free to be themselves.