Have you ever cared about someone so much that the thought of losing them hits you before anything actually happens?

Not because they’re pulling away.

Not because they’re doing anything wrong.

But because somewhere deep inside… you’re terrified you’re not enough to keep them close.

Men don’t talk about this.

We talk about loyalty, strength, responsibility — but not the fear that sits in our chest when someone we love goes quiet.

Today, we’re going to talk about the fear of losing people.

Not just partners — anyone.

Friends. Family. Mentors. Brothers.

The people who matter.

And we’re going to talk about the cycle that fear creates…

and how to break it…. Welcome to Outspoken.

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“If I had known then what I know now, I would’ve walked right past a whole lot of people.”

That’s a heavy truth, man. Because hindsight cuts deep—it shows us the faces we should’ve passed by, the voices we should’ve tuned out, and the paths we should’ve never taken.

Exactly. And yet, every wrong crowd, every wasted moment—it all taught us something. It sharpened our vision for the kind of love, the kind of friendship, the kind of life we refuse to compromise on now.

So this episode isn’t about regret—it’s about clarity. It’s about realizing not everyone deserves a seat at your table, not everyone deserves access to your heart, and not everyone is meant to walk beside you.

And when you know better, you love better.

And when you love better, you live freer.

“Walk past the wrong people… so you can walk into freedom.” This is Outspoken!!

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