Is it awful to feel relieved when someone you love dies? And what if the person you lost was a terrible parent, but everyone expects you to mourn them like they were wonderful?

Licensed grief and trauma therapist Gina Moffa joins Nurse Julie to talk about the parts of grief no one wants to say out loud. Gina has spent her career helping people through the “after.” But when her own mom was dying, she found herself navigating the “during” for the first time, an experience that reshaped the way she understands and counsels grief.

Gina explains why we’re a grief illiterate society, and why the things we say to grieving people often hurt more than they help. She also opens up about the guilt that comes with relief, why you may have already grieved someone who hurt you long before they died, and why putting the dead on a pedestal is sometimes an injustice to the truth.

And as Gina and Julie unpack the messy, complicated feelings that come with loss, they answer the question so many grieving people quietly ask: if I’m having a good day, am I betraying the person I lost?

For more on Gina Moffa and her practice, check out: https://www.ginamoffa.com

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What happens when your best friend’s story takes over the world, but you’re still figuring out how to live without her?

Nikki Boyer, co-creator of Dying for Sex, joins Nurse Julie to share the story of Molly Kochan, her best friend who, after a terminal cancer diagnosis, decided to live by her own rules. Their podcast about Molly’s sexual adventures and search for connection became a hit TV series, but keeping Molly’s story alive also made it harder for Nikki to grieve her.

Nikki shares the wild, hilarious, and sometimes jaw-dropping moments they experienced together, including the unforgettable sexual adventures Molly pursued while dying and the strange things Molly said and experienced in the hospital that made Nikki question what lies beyond this life. She also opens up about why it took five years to truly face losing her best friend, what Molly’s death taught her about her own, and the one lesson from Molly that forever changed how she lives.

And as Nikki and Julie unpack Molly’s unforgettable story, they explore the big question Molly left behind: what if facing death is exactly what teaches us how to live?

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You’ve probably imagined your last moments. But have you ever wondered what you’ll actually remember?

Nurse Julie sits down with Chloe Mediumship, psychic medium and host of We Talk to the Dead, to talk about death, the afterlife, and what might be waiting for us when our time here is up. Chloe shares why she believes passing away is “always a reunion,” and why seeing our loved ones again might feel like no time has passed at all.

Julie and Chloe also tackle the questions we’ve all wondered about: Do we get a life review? Do our loved ones know we’re still here missing them? And will Grandma look like Grandma, or show up in her 25-year-old glory days?

Then things get a little weird, in the best possible way. Chloe shares what it’s like to connect with spirits, whether they ever interrupt at the worst possible moment (yes, those moments), and the question Julie simply cannot let go: Is there a Starbucks in heaven? Because eternity is a long time, and some of us are going to need a latte.

Whether you’ve lost someone you wish you could see again or you’re just trying to figure out what happens when we die, this conversation might leave you with a little less fear, a lot more curiosity, and a few new questions for the other side.

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