In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between the fantasy we’re sold through books, movies, and TV—and the reality of what intimacy, desire, and connection can actually look like in real life. We start by reflecting on how we first learned about sex (or didn’t), and how much of that education came from media rather than real conversations.

From there, we unpack how unrealistic storylines, romance tropes, and modern-day media can quietly shape expectations around relationships, intimacy, and even ourselves—and what can happen when fantasy starts setting the standard. We talk honestly about comparison, pressure, disappointment, and the importance of separating entertainment from real-life connection.

This conversation is just the beginning. This topic is broad, layered, and deeply relevant, and it definitely won’t be the last time we talk about it. We’ll be revisiting it in future episodes as we continue to explore how media influences relationships, intimacy, and expectations in this season of life.

While this episode touches on relationships and marriage, it’s not just for couples. It’s for any mom who’s ever consumed media and thought, “Is it just me?”—and needed to hear something honest, grounding, and relatable.