• Fix the Flirting Flaw that Creeps Women Out (the New Rules of Dating, Part 2)
    Jan 8 2026
    Are you ready to flirt with women without coming off as “creepy”? In Part 2 of his 26 New Rules of Dating, bestselling author and dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the invisible blind spot that makes good guys accidentally seem creepy—and he helps you fix it. Learn how to flirt with confidence and authenticity, and make 2026 the year you meet your dream girlfriend.

    Episode Highlights:

    01:47: The Classy Approaching Move that Women Find Fascinating

    06:58: Do This to Get Girls Texting You Back

    13:13: The Right and Wrong Way to Use A.I. on the Apps

    16:34: The Flirting Flaw that Makes Decent Men Seem Creepy

    20:37: The Question to Ask on Every First Date


    BOOK A FREE CALL WITH DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN IF 1-ON-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:DatingTransformation.com

    EMAIL CONNELL TO GET A FREE COPY OF HIS BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:connell@datingtransformation.com
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    24 min
  • Bad Dating Advice Has Failed Decent Men: Here Are 26 New Rules for 2026 That Actually Work (Part 1)
    Jan 6 2026
    Be mysterious. Don’t double-text. Use “tricks” to make her chase you. Yuck! Most dating advice is as outdated as flip phones and Fax machines. The old playbook just doesn’t work. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett unveils his 26 New Dating Rules for 2026. In part 1, he shares how to be kind and confident, why texting “like a girl” is a good thing (seriously!), and reveals the playful dating app opener that women love.

    Episode Highlights:

    02:05: Why Women Want You to Talk to Them IRL (and How to Do It)

    07:05: How to Channel Your First Date Nerves to Spark a Connection

    09:14: The Dating App Opener You Must Try

    20:50: The Dreaded Mistake to Stop Making on Dates

    24:51: Talk about This to NEVER Run Out of Things to Say


    BOOK A FREE CALL WITH DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN IF 1-ON-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:DatingTransformation.com

    EMAIL CONNELL TO GET A FREE COPY OF HIS BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:connell@datingtransformation.com
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    28 min
  • Stop Freezing Up! What to Say to Meet Women in Real Life (No Weird Pickup Lines Needed)
    Dec 26 2025
    You see women you’d love to meet IRL, but you just don’t know what to say. So you freeze up. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares his What-to-Say Method, a simple, rejection-proof framework that makes it easy to meet women in bars, coffee-shops, or the gym. Learn how to start light, flirty conversations without memorized scripts or awkward pickup lines—and finally feel confident talking to women anywhere.

    Episode Highlights:

    02:17: The What to Say Method: 3 Simple Ways to Break the Ice Anywhere

    05:52: Option A: The Charming Compliment

    07:15: Option B: The Insightful Question

    10:39: Option C: The Playful Observation

    17:15: Client Win: How Robbie Went from Anxiety to Instant Coffee Dates

    20:45: What to Do if You STILL Freeze When You Want to Talk to Women

    BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO APPLY HIS WHAT-TO-SAY METHOD AND MEET WOMEN IRL:www.DatingTransformation.com
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    25 min
  • “I Approached a Woman and 2 Strangers Literally Applauded Me” (Live Coaching with Andrew)
    Dec 23 2025
    Andrew was the dateless, anxious guy who never approached women. Now, he gets numbers and dates—and after one especially bold effort, two strangers literally applauded him. In this live coaching session with dating coach Connell Barrett, Andrew breaks down the simple, practical strategies that changed everything. Andrew isn’t a natural extrovert. He just did the work. And if he can do this, you can too.

    EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

    02:10: From Anxious to Approaching Women Anywhere

    35:55: The Daily Confidence Ritual that Changed Everything

    38:25: Exactly What Andrew Said to Her that Sparked an Instant Make-out

    43:47: The Exact Moment Andrew’s Fear of Approaching Vanished

    46:42: What to Say When A Woman You’re Dating Asks, “Are We Exclusive?”


    BOOK A FREE CALL WITH BESTSELLING AUTHOR CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN IF 1-ON-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: DatingTransformation.com

    EMAIL CONNELL TO GET A FREE COPY OF HIS BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: connell@datingtransformation.com
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    1 ora e 1 min
  • ‘I Sent a Voice Note About Her Boobs…to HER! Can I Recover?’ Dating Coach Connell Barrett Breaks It Down
    Dec 18 2025
    Ever had a jaw-dropping dating disaster? Wait until you hear about the guy who sent a cringe-worthy voice note about his date’s breasts… directly to her! But what if a screwup like that gets her MORE into him? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett answers listener questions, reveals why dating disasters happen, and shares how to recover with confidence and class.

    Episode Highlights:

    00:54: The Vexing Voice Note: How Screwing Up Can Actually Help You

    02:35: Whoops! Connell “Hits On” a Stranger—in Front of His Date

    05:40: The 3-Step Framework to Recover from a Dating Disaster

    16:47: The Do’s and Don’ts of Sexting

    21:58: Exactly How Many Texts to Send to Get a First Date


    BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-ON-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM WOMAN: www.DatingTransformation.com
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    31 min
  • From Ghosted to Getting Great Dates: The 26 New Rules of Online Dating for 2026 (Part 2)
    Dec 16 2025
    Online dating is changing faster than you can say “swipe.” And not knowing what works on the apps in 2026 will cost you matches, dates… and even keep you from finding love. In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals the rest of his 26 new rules for online dating success in 2026. Apply these practical tips to go from frustration to finally getting great dates—just like Connell’s clients do.

    Episode Highlights:

    01:45: The New Way to Use Audio Prompts on Hinge

    10:10: How the “3 Passions Rule” Makes Your Bio Magnetic

    12:00: What Causes Swiping Fatigue—and How to Fix It

    16:41: How to Set Up a First Date in Just 3 Messages

    19:23: Connell’s Texting Framework to Stop Getting Ghosted


    BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN WHY AUTHENTICITY IS THE SECRET WEAPON TO IMPROVING YOUR DATING LIFE: www.DatingTransformation.com


    GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T.” EMAIL HIM WITH THE SUBJECT LINE “FREE BOOK” & GET YOURS TODAY! Connell@DatingTransformation.com
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    25 min
  • Online Dating Is Brutal in 2026—Here Are 26 New Rules to Finally Get Good Matches (Part 1)
    Dec 11 2025
    You’re exhausted by the dating apps, right? The endless swiping, the scarcity of matches, the ghosting. The problem? Online dating has changed, and most guys are still using outdated strategies. In this two-part episode, dating coach Connell Barrett breaks down his 26 new rules for online dating in 2026. It’s time to match more, get ghosted less, and finally find your dream woman in the new year.

    Episode Highlights:

    03:30: The Biggest Myth About Online Dating that Changes Everything

    07:20: How to Choose Photos You KNOW Will Work (Backed by Data)

    13:27: Survival of the Spiciest: The Prompt Women Respond To

    19:02: Replace Your Opening Photo with This

    33:12: The Secret to Taking Your Bio from Boring to Swipe-able

    BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS COACHING CAN HELP YOU MEET THE GIRLFRIEND YOU’VE ALWAYS WANTED: www.DatingTransformation.com
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    36 min
  • Introducing The 6 Icks: A New Dating Framework to Never Be Creepy—and Always Flirt with Charm
    Dec 4 2025
    Chances are, you freeze up around women because you’re afraid of seeming weird or creepy. You just don’t want to give women “the ick,” right? In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett proudly unveils his new framework: The 6 Icks—the 6 core behaviors that creep women out. Once you know them, you’re free to make confident, calibrated moves without seeming pushy or inappropriate.

    Episode Highlights:

    02:45: The Moment Connell Learned How to Approach with Charm, Not Creepiness

    12:15: The Sex Object Ick: Leading with Sexual Comments that Objectify Women

    13:05: The Too Timid Ick: Hesitant, Fearful Energy that Feels Uncomfortable

    14:20: The Me-First Ick: Making It About What You Want, Rather than a Win-Win

    15:22: The Try-Hard Ick: Desperate Bragging, Instead of Authentic Core Confidence

    16:35: The Signal-Blind Ick: Missing or Ignoring Her Cues and Escalating the Wrong Way

    20:01: The Agenda Ick: Using Manipulative Tactics & Ignoring Her Boundaries

    BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW 1-ON-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU MEET WOMEN AND FLIRT WITH CHARM:DatingTransformation.com
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    35 min