Nobody checked on your pastor this week.

Somebody probably typed "praying for you Pastor" under a post. Somebody shook their hand at the door and said good word. But nobody asked how they were doing and then got quiet long enough to hear the second answer.

You already know the first answer. Blessed. Highly favored. Can't complain. They've said it ten thousand times and meant it maybe half of those.

This episode is for two rooms at the same time. If you're a church member, it's so you know what to ask. If you're a pastor, it's so you know you're not crazy.

Henry walks three things. The weight, which is what they're actually carrying, backed by research most churches have never seen. The wall, which is why nobody asks, and both sides built it. And the watchman, which is Exodus 17, where a national battle turned on whether two men were willing to hold up one man's arms.

Somebody noticed Moses' hands were getting heavy without being told. Somebody brought a chair. Two men, one on each side, and they stayed until sundown.

Israel didn't win because Moses was strong. Israel won because two men decided his arms were their assignment.

IN THIS EPISODE

What the data says: one in four pastors seriously considered leaving in the past year

Why vocational satisfaction dropped twenty points in eleven years

The Duke research on clergy physical health nobody talks about in church

Four reasons nobody asks, and why two of them belong to the pastor

Exodus 17, and the question every church should be able to answer

Scripture: Exodus 17:12, Ezekiel 33

Who watches the one who does the watching?

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Apostolic Insight is the podcast of Simple Systems Consulting. New episode every week through December.

Henry Tolbert is the founder of Simple Systems Consulting and an Associate Pastor at The STAR Church. He and Latoya Tolbert help small and bivocational pastors build churches that run on systems instead of exhaustion.

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