Stefanie O'Connell is an award-winning journalist and the author of The Ambition Penalty. She has run her own business for a decade, and is now doing it while raising a toddler in NYC. But this episode is a little different, because Stefanie isn't here to say she has it all figured out. She sits down with me to break down how she is affording a season where she deliberately stepped back from earning to write her book and be present for her daughter.

We walk through her whole money trajectory, from $450 a week on a Broadway tour to a business pulling in around $300,000 in revenue. Then the part most people never say out loud: how she set aside more than $100,000 as a runway, watched her revenue fall almost 90% last year, and has been spending down that cushion ever since. Plus the data behind the book, including the half-million-dollar lifetime cost of the motherhood penalty.

Stefanie also gets honest about the power dynamics inside households and her own marriage, what she hopes her daughter learns by watching how responsibility gets shared at home, and her reframe of money as seasons instead of a straight line. And of course, what she is working to afford next.

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