What if the tension you feel in your love life isn't a problem but a prerequisite? In this message, Apostle Ken Bennett confronts a truth many of us don't want to hear: You are not in control of your love story.

Drawing from Matthew 16:24-28, this powerful sermon challenges us to recognize that whether we're married, single, dating, or healing, we all exist on a spectrum - spiritually, emotionally, and relationally. We're not as whole as we think we are, and we all have special spiritual needs, emotional gaps, and relational scars.

🔥 "Does your love life reflect sacrifice or satisfaction?"

The world has taught us to customize our partners and direct our love lives like film directors. But God's call is radically different: Before He calls you to romance, He calls you to repentance. This isn't about dating tips or marriage hacks. It's about understanding that love in God's kingdom demands more than feelings. It requires a faith fueled by surrender.

Whether you're dating, healing from heartbreak, wrestling with identity, or trying to save a struggling marriage, this message will challenge you to ask: Is my love life based on what my flesh wants or what my spirit needs?

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