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s it ever okay to date your friend’s ex—or is that a line you never cross? In this episode, Big Slick breaks down one of the most controversial questions in modern friendships: loyalty vs attraction and whether chasing a spark is worth the social fallout.

We unpack why the “friend’s ex” rule exists in the first place, how secrecy destroys trust faster than the breakup itself, and why dating inside the circle often leads to awkward group dynamics, divided loyalties, and damaged reputations. From attraction timelines to emotional blind spots, we explain how situations that feel justified in the moment can quietly dismantle years of friendship.

Still think it could work? We lay out the only ethical path forward: radical honesty, clear boundaries, and full acceptance of a possible hard no. If you can’t respect your friend’s answer, that’s the answer. We also talk about how exes sometimes use friends as leverage, revenge, or validation—and why stepping into that triangle rarely ends clean.

This is straight talk about dating ethics, friendship boundaries, and choosing peace over predictable chaos. We’re not judging feelings—we’re helping you avoid mistakes that cost real relationships. Listen in, then decide where you stand: hard no, or rare exception?

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