What happens when the life you built—your faith, your reputation, your “calling”—comes crashing down?

In this special I Know a Guy redemptive stories episode, host Steve Cummings sits down with Drew Powell, a pastor’s kid who grew up in church, led worship, and worked in what he calls “the family business.” From the outside, it looked solid. God-centered. Successful.

But underneath, Drew was losing himself.

Addiction, hidden pain, and unresolved identity eventually led to a full-on life crash—one that landed him at Valiant Living, where everything he thought he knew about God, faith, and himself was stripped away.

What emerged on the other side wasn’t behavior modification or religious performance—but the discovery of his true identity as a beloved son.

This is a raw, honest conversation for men who feel stuck, tired of pretending, or quietly afraid their story is too broken to be redeemed.

If you’ve ever wondered, “Who am I really—when everything else falls apart?”

This episode is for you.

Resources mentioned on today's podcast:

1. Valiant Living. Men's addiction treatment program.

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Are you living life at 100mph—so fast you miss the people and moments that matter?

Today on I Know a Guy, we’ll uncover a different rhythm: one where your heart stops chasing and starts being known.

We live in a culture of speed, comparison, and constant motion—but deep connection happens at a slower pace. What would happen if you walked at God’s speed?

Learn practical ways to slow down, deepen relationships, and discover your true identity—not in what you do, but in who you are.

Watch. Reflect. Be present. And let your heart finally be known.

Resources mentioned on today's podcast:

"Godspeed: The Pace of Being Known."

About Steve Cummings:

• Experience: 42 years of mentoring and pastoral counseling with men’s groups in Southern California and now Georgia.

• Education: Masters of Divinity from Denver Seminary; certified by the Georgia Board of Examiners as a Pastoral Counselor; Certified Professional Coach; Identity Exchange Catalyst.

Are you or someone you struggling with a "father eclipse"? I know a guy who can help. Book some time with Steve and walk this journey with him.

Bringing Kingdom helps men rediscover who they are as beloved sons of God and live from that truth - one conversation, one connection, one community at a time.. Visit us at BringingKingdom.org and let's start a conversation.

Jesus boiled life down to two things: Love God. Love others as you love yourself. But what does it really mean to love yourself — and how does that empower you to love others well?

Today on I Know a Guy, we dive into the heart of that command. You’ll hear how your identity as a Beloved Son of the King isn’t just theology — it’s the foundation for real, simple, everyday love. We explore grace, acceptance, and practical ways to bless the people around you — even the difficult ones.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by life, unsure how to love well, or weighted down by performance — this episode is for you. Join us as we unpack what it means to live out Jesus’s command in real life. Listen now and discover how loving others can be as natural as loving yourself.

About Steve Cummings:

• Experience: 42 years of mentoring and pastoral counseling with men’s groups in Southern California and now Georgia.

• Education: Masters of Divinity from Denver Seminary; certified by the Georgia Board of Examiners as a Pastoral Counselor; Certified Professional Coach; Identity Exchange Catalyst.

Are you or someone you struggling with a "father eclipse"? I know a guy who can help. Book some time with Steve and walk this journey with him.

Bringing Kingdom helps men rediscover who they are as beloved sons of God and live from that truth - one conversation, one connection, one community at a time.. Visit us at BringingKingdom.org and let's start a conversation.

Today on I Know a Guy, we dive into a simple yet profound invitation: Bask.

In a culture that rewards doing, we often miss the deeper rhythm God invites us into — being with Him. We will unpack how to rest in the warmth of God’s love, lean into presence over performance, and live from identity rather than ambition.

Whether you’re struggling with anxiety or just tired of the grind, this episode encourages you to slow down, trust God’s voice, and revel in His love — it’s time to bask.

About Steve Cummings:

• Experience: 42 years of mentoring and pastoral counseling with men’s groups in Southern California and now Georgia.

• Education: Masters of Divinity from Denver Seminary; certified by the Georgia Board of Examiners as a Pastoral Counselor; Certified Professional Coach; Identity Exchange Catalyst.

Are you or someone you struggling with a "father eclipse"? I know a guy who can help. Book some time with Steve and walk this journey with him.

Bringing Kingdom helps men rediscover who they are as beloved sons of God and live from that truth - one conversation, one connection, one community at a time. Visit us at BringingKingdom.org and let's start a conversation.

True humility doesn’t come from insecurity—it comes from sonship.

In this episode of I Know a Guy, we explore what real humility actually looks like: confidence without arrogance, surrender without shrinking, and service rooted in being deeply loved by the Father.

If you’re tired of striving or hiding, this conversation will help you stand secure.

About Steve Cummings:

• Experience: 42 years of mentoring and pastoral counseling with men’s groups in Southern California and now Georgia.

• Education: Masters of Divinity from Denver Seminary; certified by the Georgia Board of Examiners as a Pastoral Counselor; Certified Professional Coach; Identity Exchange Catalyst.

Are you or someone you struggling with a "father eclipse"? I know a guy who can help. Book some time with Steve and walk this journey with him.

Bringing Kingdom helps men rediscover who they are as beloved sons of God and live from that truth - one conversation, one connection, one community at a time.. Visit us at BringingKingdom.org and let's start a conversation.

False humility often looks spiritual—but underneath it is fear, shame, and a distorted view of the Father.

In this episode of I Know a Guy, we explore how shrinking, hiding, and minimizing ourselves is not humility at all.

If you’ve ever felt safer staying small or invisible, this conversation will help you see what’s really going on—and why God never asked you to disappear.

About Steve Cummings:

• Experience: 42 years of mentoring and pastoral counseling with men’s groups in Southern California and now Georgia.

• Education: Masters of Divinity from Denver Seminary; certified by the Georgia Board of Examiners as a Pastoral Counselor; Certified Professional Coach; Identity Exchange Catalyst.

Are you or someone you struggling with a "father eclipse"? I know a guy who can help. Book some time with Steve and walk this journey with him.

Bringing Kingdom helps men rediscover who they are as beloved sons of God and live from that truth - one conversation, one connection, one community at a time.. Visit us at BringingKingdom.org and let's start a conversation.

Today on I Know a Guy, we close our father-wound series with the best part — healing. The Father takes every wound and rewrites it with love, identity, and belonging.

If you’re longing to know God as Father, this episode will breathe hope into your heart.

As you heard Steve mention on today's podcast, if you'd like a free copy of, "The Heart of a Warrior: Before You Can Become the Warrior You Have to Become the Beloved Son" by Michael Thompson - send Steve an email with your mailing address: steve.cummings@bringingkingdom.org.

About Steve Cummings:

• Experience: 42 years of mentoring and pastoral counseling with men’s groups in Southern California and now Georgia.

• Education: Masters of Divinity from Denver Seminary; certified by the Georgia Board of Examiners as a Pastoral Counselor; Certified Professional Coach; Identity Exchange Catalyst.

Are you or someone you struggling with a "father eclipse"? I know a guy who can help. Book some time with Steve and walk this journey with him.

Bringing Kingdom helps men rediscover who they are as beloved sons of God and live from that truth - one conversation, one connection, one community at a time.. Visit us at BringingKingdom.org and let's start a conversation.

Today on I Know a Guy, we’re talking about the performance-driven father — the dad who made love feel conditional. But the Heavenly Father delights in His sons before they ever lift a finger.

If you’ve been striving for God’s approval, this episode is your permission to rest.

As you heard Steve mention on today's podcast, if you'd like a free copy of, "The Heart of a Warrior: Before You Can Become the Warrior You Have to Become the Beloved Son" by Michael Thompson - send Steve an email with your mailing address: steve.cummings@bringingkingdom.org.

About Steve Cummings:

• Experience: 42 years of mentoring and pastoral counseling with men’s groups in Southern California and now Georgia.

• Education: Masters of Divinity from Denver Seminary; certified by the Georgia Board of Examiners as a Pastoral Counselor; Certified Professional Coach; Identity Exchange Catalyst.

Are you or someone you struggling with a "father eclipse"? I know a guy who can help. Book some time with Steve and walk this journey with him.

Bringing Kingdom helps men rediscover who they are as beloved sons of God and live from that truth - one conversation, one connection, one community at a time.. Visit us at BringingKingdom.org and let's start a conversation.