Most people don’t know what to do after an affair—especially in the church, where people suffer quietly and don’t know where to go. In this episode, I sit down with Rick Reynolds (founder of Affair Recovery), and we talk about his own story of betrayal, addiction, a vision, and what actually helps couples heal.

We unpack betrayal trauma (and why intrusive thoughts don’t mean you’re “crazy”), why trickle-truth keeps re-injuring the relationship, what the betrayed spouse needs early on, and why a legit recovery timeline is closer to 18–24 months—not a couple weeks and a “sorry.”

Also, a reminder that if you’re dealing with this topic right now, you’re not alone—and there’s a path forward.

Enjoy

-Kyle

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