Do you know you need a boundary but find yourself trapped by the fear of what happens after you say no? Are you tired of over-explaining, over-justifying and carrying the emotional weight of everyone else’s disappointment? It’s time to stop the cycle of self-abandonment and discover how to stay steady in your truth.

Welcome back to the Glow-Getter Lab! This is a 20-minute practical experiment in The Boundary Rehearsal. This Lab isn't about being cold or rigid; it’s about learning to say a calm, kind and clear "no" without the crushing weight of guilt. We provide the exact boundary scripts and techniques you need to protect your energy and navigate the "curveballs" people throw when you finally start putting yourself first.

What You'll Learn in This Lab:

• The Simple Boundary Formula: A clean, 3-step process for a boundary that requires zero emotional defence.
• Why Boundaries Feel Like Danger: Understanding how your nervous system reacts to perceived rejection and conflict.
• Handling the Curveballs: Practical scripts for when people say "But it's important!" or "You've changed."
• The Emotional Aftermath: How to navigate the guilt and shakiness that often follows a new boundary.
• The Rehearsal Practice: A guided exercise to find the words that feel grounded and true for your life.

This Lab is an essential tool for meditation beginners, people-pleasers and anyone in midlife looking to reclaim their time and mental peace.

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This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or financial advice. Always consult a qualified professional for health concerns or major life decisions. Please listen to your body and never use guided practices while driving or operating heavy machinery.

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