For years, I believed my purpose had to be something big.A mission. A cause. Something that proved my worth.Looking back, I realised so much of what drove me came from trying to prove something - to my father, to the people who doubted me, and perhaps even to myself.But what if purpose isn't something we have to push towards?What if it's something that quietly pulls us forward through the things we genuinely love?In this episode I share the surprising shift that's changing how I see my future. I also talk openly about something I've rarely spoken about in depth - the years I spent hiding after relentless criticism, bullying and online trolling. One person in particular made my life miserable and, without even realising it, I allowed that experience to convince me it wasn't safe to be seen.For years I stayed small.Not anymore.I've recently recognised and removed two invisible barriers that have kept me hidden, and for the first time in a long time, I genuinely feel comfortable being visible again.If you've ever felt like you've lost your purpose, been afraid to put yourself out there, or spent your life trying to prove your worth, I hope this conversation helps you realise you're not alone.This is another chapter in my journey of reinventing myself at 58 - and perhaps it might help you begin reinventing yourself too.