How do you talk to your parents about getting older — without making it weird? In Episode 20, we sit down with 30-year-old stand-up comedian Danny Dunn to explore the funny, awkward, and deeply real moments of watching your parents age. Danny's parents are only 68, but the signs are already showing — from a dad who refuses to get glasses and carries a magnifying glass instead, to a mom who still whispers the word "lesbian." Behind the jokes, though, lies a genuine question we all face: are they going to be okay, and am I? We cover why humor is the ultimate "Trojan horse" for difficult conversations, how Danny turned childhood bullying and ADHD into a survival tool through comedy, and what happens when the perfectionism your parents instilled in you starts cracking as they show their own humanity. We also dive deep into the host's personal story of losing both parents — one to cancer, one to dementia — and the urgent case for recording conversations with your parents while you still can. If you've been putting off the hard talks about wills, trusts, healthcare directives, or even just "what do you want your life to look like as you get older," this episode is your permission slip to start. Because it's not about the end — it's about everything in between, and making sure your parents live their fullest, most dignified life while they can. In this episode: Why humor breaks the ice on topics nobody wants to touch Growing up thinking your parents know everything (and the slow realization they don't) The perfectionism trap: resenting your parents in your 20s, appreciating them by your 30s Recording conversations with your parents — and why the "annoying" ones are the ones you'll miss most "I wouldn't let you die alone": a father's love on a cruise ship at midnight How to approach resistant parents about end-of-life planning (without getting shut down) The magnifying glass, re-election for parents, and other stand-up bits born from real life Why processing grief before it happens doesn't work the way you think About our guest: Danny Dunn is a stand-up comedian performing across the country. He headlines Zanies in Chicago on November 1st and opens for comedian Rory Scovel (whose Netflix special Show Must Go On covers similar themes). Follow him on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, and YouTube @dannydunnismyboyfriend. Connect With Aging Parent Network Not sure who you need to call or where to begin? Aging Parent Network can help connect you with the right professional for your family's circumstances. 📞 858-727-9333 📧 info@agingparentnetwork.com If you have aging parents or are a caregiver, this episode gives you the tools to have an important conversation before a scam happens — not after. 🔔 Subscribe for more conversations on navigating aging, caregiving, and family decisions.