What does a good coworker look like when the stakes are real, the calendar is packed, and life crashes through the door? We share the story of a year that stripped leadership down to the studs and revealed a team stronger than anyone realized. When personal loss shook the top, our crew didn’t freeze—they stepped in, made decisions, and carried the load without keeping score. That experience reframed how we think about support, accountability, and the space leaders must create for others to grow.

We dig into a practical playbook for everyday teamwork. First, act when you see a need, even if it’s “not your job.” That see something, do something mindset compounds into a culture of ownership. Then, speak up with hard truths in a soft way. Don’t triangulate; go direct. We talk through scripts, timing, and tone so feedback feels like maintenance, not warfare. Civility matters, especially when the default is blame and name calling. And timing matters even more—address issues early, before resentment builds and voices rise.

We also unpack the other side of feedback: receiving it. Most workplaces reward defensiveness and perfection theater. We want the opposite. Curiosity, clear asks, and next steps create momentum and trust. Leaders have a special role here: stay small longer so the team can get big. It’s uncomfortable, but it’s the fastest route to discovering hidden capacity and building resilience that lasts beyond any one person. If you’re ready to cultivate coworkers who are co-builders, not bystanders, this conversation gives you the language, habits, and mindset to start today.

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