Brian Page spent fifteen years working eighty hour weeks while his wife ran most everything at home. Then they traded places. She went all in on her career, he took over the entire household, and they moved the family twice for her job.

He is the founder of Modern Husbands, a Certified Financial Therapist and an Accredited Financial Counselor, and in this episode he sits down with me to break down how they actually afford it.

Brian and I walk through the household income that funded all of it, the rule they never broke on housing, how they paid for three kids without taking on debt, and the one sentence he asked his wife to tell her boss that turned into a global promotion two weeks later.

Plus, he shares why he irons his wife's clothes before he puts them away, and the three books he tells every man to read.

Brian reveals the bleeding ulcer and the Christmases he spent too sick to leave the house, the junk car his father made him drive and the reason behind it, what the research says about couples who combine all their finances, and how he thinks about protecting himself financially now that he is not the one earning.

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The three books Brian recommends to every man: The Ambition Penalty by Stefanie O'Connell Rodriguez (https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/stefanie-oconnell/the-ambition-penalty/9781541705210/), Equal Partners by Dr. Kate Mangino [LINK TO ADD], and Fair Play by Eve Rodsky [LINK TO ADD].

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Jess Banks makes tables that float in midair and sell for up to $60,000. She has two engineering degrees from MIT, she is a physicist and roboticist turned inventor, she founded the kinetic furniture company Rock Paper Robot, and she co-hosts the Emmy Award-winning Netflix show Hack My Home. She has also closed the company, licensed the table to someone who has not sold one in years, and does not own one herself. In this episode she sits down with me to break down how she actually affords her life.

Jess and I walk through the real economics of making physical things: what a levitating table sells for versus what it costs to build, the $1.6 million she raised for Rock Paper Robot and how quickly it was gone, the licensing deal she signed with someone she trusted, and the $200 to $400 an hour she charges for the consulting work that pays her bills now.

Plus, she shares what a Netflix host really gets paid, the wardrobe budget she was handed and how many looks it had to cover, and what she spent out of pocket just to attend the Emmys.

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See Jess's work at rockpaperrobot.com and follow her on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/rockpaperrobot/).

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Jill Kargman has written twelve books, created and starred in the Bravo series Odd Mom Out, co-produced a Tony-nominated revival of Cabaret, and just made her first feature film. Influenced is a satire of Upper East Side momfluencers that she wrote and stars in as Dzanielle, with appearances from Drew Barrymore, Gwyneth Paltrow, and Matt Damon. It is streaming now.

She raised three kids on the Upper East Side, inside the exact world she has spent her career poking fun at. In this episode she sits down with me to break down how she actually affords the lifestyle, starting with the most honest answer you could ask for.

Jill and I walk through how an independent film actually gets financed, why she put some of her own money in, what it cost to cast Matt Damon and Gwyneth Paltrow, and the location that would have run $100,000 that she got for $12,000.

Plus, she shares why asking for money is the part of the job she hates most, and what two paid posts years ago taught her about what she is willing to sell.

Jill reveals what she thinks Dzanielle would need to earn to pull off the lifestyle, why money is still harder to talk about than sex, the trade her family makes to afford the way they travel, and what she and her husband did to keep three kids grounded in a neighborhood with so much comparison.

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Watch Influenced, streaming now on Apple (https://tv.apple.com/us/movie/influenced/umc.cmc.3yoyvkwzuzfs3o1q17wx2qjcn) and Amazon (https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B0H49DY1H7).

Follow Jill on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/jillkargman/).

Read The Opposite of Spoiled by Ron Lieber (https://ronlieber.com/books/the-opposite-of-spoiled/), the book on raising kids and money that Jill says every parent should read.

Learn more about the American LGBT Museum (https://americanlgbtqmuseum.org/), opening in 2028 on 77th Street and Central Park West, where Jill serves on the board.

Support the River Fund (https://www.river.fund/) in Queens, the food pantry and family program Jill's family has volunteered with for years.

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Laura is a corporate executive who has spent seventeen years at the same company. Her husband is a prosecutor at the Manhattan DA's office, and they are raising three daughters in Tribeca. She is also one of my best friends, and has never talked about her money publicly before. In this episode, she sits down with me to break down how she actually affords the lifestyle.

Laura and I walk through the $2.05 million apartment they bought two years ago and the $9,000 a month in charges that come with it, the $75,000 they spent moving walls, the $230,000 they spent furnishing every room, and what the two most expensive pieces in the apartment actually cost.

Plus, she shares the four-word negotiation phrase she uses on everything from party vendors to invoices, and exactly what it has saved her.

Laura reveals how they actually paid for that apartment, what a nanny, camp, and after-school activities cost for three kids in Manhattan, the single conversation with her employer that produced the biggest income jump of her career, and why she still has no idea what she is inheriting. Plus, what she is working toward affording next.

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Hillary Zio spent twenty years working in wine for other people. Now she owns Isola, a twenty-four-seat wine bar in Kinderhook, New York with a list devoted entirely to the islands and coasts of Europe, and she owns the historic building it sits in.

She's a Certified Sommelier, a wine consultant, a wine club founder, and the author of two books including her new memoir, Still Working in Wine: Twenty Years Later. She's also raising her seven-year-old daughter in the Hudson Valley.

In this episode, she sits down with me to break down how she actually affords the lifestyle.

Hillary and I walk through the $100,000 it took to open Isola, why year one was not profitable, and the half dozen income streams that fund the whole thing.

She shares what it really costs to become a Certified Sommelier, from the $5,000 in coursework to the $15,000 to $20,000 in wine she bought just to train her palate. Plus, her rules for finding a bottle you'll love for $30.

Hillary reveals the unexpected way she went from renting her restaurant space to owning the entire commercial building, what her in-ground pool cost to put in and what she pays every single summer to keep it, the $20,000 a year private school she no longer pays for, and the money belief that let her stop spending to impress other people.

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Visit Isola Wine & Tapas in Kinderhook, NY (https://isolawinebar.com/), and follow Hillary on Instagram at (https://www.instagram.com/hillaryzio/), where you'll find her wine club, her online wine course, and everything else she's building.

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Meghan Lim was laid off three times before she bet on herself. She's a personal finance creator who took her net worth from a negative number to six figures in three years, all while keeping her spending between two and three thousand dollars a month. In this episode, she sits down with me to break down how she actually affords the lifestyle.

Meghan reveals how she used her emergency savings to take care of herself when her eleven-year relationship ended this summer, why she and her fiancé never combined a single account in all that time, and what she wants every woman to have before she needs it.

Meghan and I walk through the $108,000 she earned in her first full year of content creation, the corporate salary she walked away from, and the nine months between jobs when pet sitting and a matcha shop paid the bills. Plus, she shares exactly what her life costs now, from the $1,350 in rent to the groceries and the gym, the four income streams that fund it, and the Zillow trick that got her an apartment ten other people applied for.

She also shares the one thing about her finances people would never guess: the hundred dollars a week she puts into Bitcoin.

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Priya Malani spent 2013 feeding two people on forty dollars a week so she could keep building a company nobody had asked for yet. Fourteen years in, Stash Wealth has worked with thousands of what she calls HENRYs, high earners not rich yet, and she rents an apartment in the Financial District she negotiated below market. I have known her for over a decade and had no idea she was a professional ballerina first.

In this episode, she sits down with me to break down how she actually affords the lifestyle.

Priya and I walk through the $33K starting salary she negotiated at Merrill Lynch, the almost ten years it took before she was technically a six figure earner in her own business, and the flat fee pricing she tried first and why it didn't work. Plus, the $3,500 rent she kept flat for three years in Manhattan without a rent stabilized lease, why she sold her car, and how she decides the company can afford a new hire.

Priya reveals the magic number she uses instead of a budget, the sub savings accounts she runs for everything from travel to doorman tips, and the framework she gives clients whose income swings month to month. She gets into growing up in a high earning household that still felt like there was never enough, why she was offended when someone told her to sell the company for $10 million, and what she is working toward affording next.

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Alex Schinasi’s father sketched the first Hulken on a hotel notepad in Paris because he was tired of breaking his shoulders carrying shopping bags. Six years later, Vogue named it the "it" bag of summer, and everyone wants to get their hands on one. Alex is building it toward a hundred million dollar brand with fewer than ten employees and no outside investors.

She runs it with her husband Johnny, also hosts the Unfinished Business podcast, and is raising three kids in Lisbon.

In this episode, she sits down with me to break down how she actually affords the lifestyle.

Alex and I walk through how she funded a physical product business without raising a dollar, the manufacturer relationship that let her front inventory before she had sold any of it, and how she and Johnny knew the company could finally afford to pay them. Plus, what her podcast costs to produce every month and why this fall is the first time it might pay for itself, why she takes out insurance on any purchase order above $250,000, and what her two previous exits actually did for her finances.

Alex reveals the AI infrastructure that’s part of her minimum viable company framework, including her chief of staff Freddie, who is not a person, and an entirely new business she announces on the show for the first time.

She gets into the Lisbon schools that cost a quarter of what New York private schools do, the thing about moving to Europe that genuinely surprised her, what her parties actually cost, and what she's working toward affording next.

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Follow Alex on LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/alex-schinasi-16b6abb/) and Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/alexschinasi/).

Listen to the Unfinished Business podcast (https://www.youtube.com/@UnfinishedBizPodcast).

Shop Hulken (https://hulken.com).

Learn more about Northstone (https://northstone-ai.com), the AI infrastructure company Alex announces on this episode.

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