“Why would you want to skip the in-between chapters? Then the book isn’t interesting, and then your life isn’t interesting.” — Romi Menegoni
Romi Menegoni has worn a lot of hats, and a crown is only one of them. She came to the U.S. from Sarajevo at eight years old, booked her first modeling job in third grade, and has spent fourteen years caring for patients as a dental hygienist. This year, she carried all of it onto the Miss California stage as Miss Sonoma County USA.
In this episode of Her Story Unscripted, a women’s podcast built on real life stories, Romi opens up about the sisterhood that happens backstage at pageants, the women’s and children’s health clinics she’s championing here in Sonoma County, and why safety is the first conversation she has with any family thinking about modeling. She shares the daily meditation that keeps her grounded between patients, the pinch-me moment she had backstage at New York Fashion Week, and what she’d tell any girl with a dream she’s afraid to chase.
If you’re in the long, unglamorous middle of something you want, this honest conversation is a reminder that the in-between chapters are the story. New episodes every Thursday on all major podcast platforms.
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Timestamp
00:00 Cold open — Romi on core values, self-respect, and self-confidence
00:45 Welcome to Her Story Unscripted
01:11 Heather welcomes Romi, recording from her car before work
02:44 Fourteen years as a dental hygienist, and training new grads
03:20 Restorative yoga, Miss California, and a big campaign in Malibu
04:47 Why pageants aren’t a beauty contest — and the cause she carried
07:22 Her first modeling ads in third grade, walking set cards door to door
08:44 Album art, band tees, and why her mom pointed her toward pageants
10:58 The sisterhood backstage — “take my earring, take my shoe”
13:15 Six pageants in, and an invitation to Miss International
14:41 Four days of 4 a.m. call times
15:50 Born in Sarajevo, arriving at eight, becoming a California girl
18:59 Advocating for yourself in your own healthcare
21:17 Blending Eastern and Western medicine, and her first yoga class at 16
24:48 Meditating on a yoga mat behind the office every lunch break
27:22 How you actually become Miss Sonoma County USA
31:21 Showing up for Sonoma County, and the need people don’t see
35:48 Why safety comes first for girls entering modeling and pageants
41:00 The sisterhood that shows up long after the pageant ends
43:08 Her pinch-me moment backstage at New York Fashion Week
45:52 What she’d tell a girl with a dream on her heart
49:54 Finish what you started — and keep watering the garden
51:25 Thank-yous from a Starbucks parking lot in Santa Rosa
About Romi Menegoni
Romana “Romi” Menegoni is a Bosnian-Italian editorial fashion model, philanthropist, clinical health professional, and pageant girl. She has been featured in magazines internationally since the early ’90s and models for beauty ads, fashion campaigns, and beauty commercials. A former Miss California USA contestant, Romi currently holds the title of Miss Sonoma County USA and plans to keep competing for the Miss USA and Miss Universe titles.
When she isn’t modeling, Romi works full time as a Registered Dental Hygienist, serving patients in her community and taking her role as a healer to heart. She also teaches restorative yoga to private groups, creating safe spaces for teenagers and women to heal through movement and meditation. A supporter of A21, Romi believes you can create sunshine in your community no matter the circumstances, and her heart is with women and children wherever life takes her.
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