What happens when healing brings you back to the place that shaped you?

In this episode of Hello Me, It’s Me, Vulnerable AF, Nikki D. Lovely sits down with Nicole to talk about what it really means to return home during a season of rebuilding. Together, they explore vulnerability, healing in real time, and the complicated emotions that surface when you’re navigating family dynamics, cultural expectations, and generational trauma, all under one roof.

This conversation isn’t about having it all figured out. It’s about learning to set boundaries, advocate for yourself, and choose rest in a world that rewards burnout. Nikki and Nicole reflect on the lessons this season has taught them and why healing doesn’t erase triggers, it changes how you meet them.

At its heart, this episode asks an honest question:
How do you keep growing when healing leads you back home?

In this episode, Nikki discusses the complexities of independence for women, particularly in the context of dating and relationships. She reflects on her personal experiences and the societal pressures that influence women's choices. The conversation explores the emotional toll of being independent, the challenges of dating in today's economy, and the importance of knowing one's values and not settling for less in relationships. Nikki emphasizes the need for support and partnership while navigating these challenges, encouraging listeners to ask the right questions and prioritize their emotional well-being.

Healing doesn’t mean you stop getting triggered.
It means you stop abandoning yourself when it happens.

This episode is a year-end reflection on what we’re leaving in 2025 and what we’re intentionally carrying into 2026. We’re talking about healed reactions versus old patterns, emotional awareness, and how growth shows up when life still life’s.

Healing is about recognizing, taking responsibility, and choosing differently than you have in the past. The question we begin with and leave you with is simple but honest:

What are you leaving behind in 2025, and changing about yourself into the new year?

In this episode, Nikki shares her journey of temporarily moving back in with her parents, reflecting on personal growth, family dynamics, and the challenges of managing debt. She discusses the importance of healing, forgiveness, and the lessons learned about pride and peace, while also emphasizing the need for self-reflection while navigating life's challenges. Join us if you know the feeling!

In this episode, Nikki shares her personal struggles with moving, self-compassion, and the emotional challenges that arise during transitions. She reflects on her past decisions, the importance of giving oneself grace, and the lessons learned from her experiences. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-reflection, understanding emotions, and the journey of personal growth.

Join us as we discuss the journey from avoidant and anxious attachment styles to achieving a secure and healthy mindset.

My guest, Nicole Yvette, shares her experiences with social media detox, the impact of algorithms on self-perception, and the importance of self-reflection and therapy.

Together, we unpack the challenges of dating, why I needed 5 years of celibacy, the significance of vulnerability, and the power of healing. If you're suffering from emotional unavailability, this is an insightful conversation you won't want to miss.

In this soul-stirring conversation, Nikki and ShebaSpeaksVolumes unpack the quiet heartbreak of transactional friendships, the ache of abandonment, and the power of choosing yourself. They reflect on how friendships evolve, how self-worth shifts with healing, and why it's okay to outgrow what no longer fits. This episode is a tender reminder: don’t just show up for others, show up for you, too.

Nikki shares her journey of navigating life's unexpected turns, managing expectations, and the importance of healing and self-discovery. She emphasizes that it's never too late to pursue new dreams and encourages listeners to relinquish old expectations while setting new goals. Through her reflections, she highlights the significance of self-awareness, the healing process, and the power of resilience in overcoming life's challenges.