In this episode of the Heart and Soulution podcast, hosts Mike and Kristen Jones explore the critical roles of vision and mission statements within personal and family relationships. While common in corporate settings, the hosts argue that many couples lack a clear direction for their lives together, leading to potential conflict and unmet expectations.They discuss the differences between Vision and Mission and give ideas on how to define, and refine these statements. Mike and Kristen discuss the benefits for having a shared vision and mission. For those who are dating, discussing life visions can help determine if two people are heading in the same direction or if their paths are fundamentally incompatible. Kristen and Mike share How to Create Your Vision and Mission and outline a practical process for couples to develop these statements.

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In this episode of the Heart and Soulution podcast, Mike and Kristen Jones continue their deep dive into the unrealistic and false sexual expectations that can impact intimacy within a marriage. Borrowing concepts from the book Married Sex, they discuss how getting clear on your own expectations and understanding your spouse's is the first step toward building a healthier connection.

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Reference material and Resources to dive deeper:

• ​⁠⁠Married Sex⁠⁠, by Gary Thomas and Debra K. Fileta, published in 2021 by Zondervan publishing, available on Amazon in multiple formats.

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In this episode of Heart and Soulution, Mike and Kristen Jones discuss sexual expectations in marriage, citing the book Married Sex. They argue that personal beliefs shaped by culture and upbringing influence intimacy. Couples must communicate realistic, agreed-upon expectations and debunk myths to foster deep intimacy.

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Reference material and Resources to dive deeper:

• ⁠Married Sex⁠, by Gary Thomas and Debra K. Fileta, published in 2021 by Zondervan publishing, available on Amazon in multiple formats.

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In this episode, Mike and Kristen Jones launch the second season of Heart and Soulution by discussing physical intimacy within marriage. They highlight the importance of intentionality and character, arguing that a healthy sex life requires effort and kindness outside of the bedroom. The hosts reference the book Married Sex to address common challenges, noting that a high percentage of couples face frustrations in this area. They encourage listeners to investigate health, relational, and spiritual factors that may hinder intimacy rather than accepting a decline as a natural part of aging. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize that sexual closeness is a divine design intended to distinguish the marital bond from all other relationships.

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Reference material and Resources to dive deeper:

• Check out material from the Parrott's by visiting their ⁠website⁠ or by following them on instagram ⁠@lesandleslie.⁠

• Married Sex, by Gary Thomas and Debra K. Fileta, published in 2021 by Zondervan publishing, available on Amazon in multiple formats.

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In this episode of the "Heart and Soulution" podcast, Mike and Kristen Jones focus on navigating the holiday season with family, particularly Thanksgiving and Christmas. They share personal anecdotes about their experiences with family traditions, the challenges of blending families, and managing holidays with adult children and in-laws. They discuss the importance of setting healthy boundaries, the difficulty of managing unrealistic expectations during family gatherings, and the need for empathetic listening when dealing with challenging relatives like an "Uncle Mortimer." The discussion wraps up with practical advice for couples to form a united front, strategies for gracefully ending contentious discussions, and suggestions for creating a positive, engaging environment to minimize conflict.

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Reference material and Resources to dive deeper:

• ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Table Topics Tabletop Sets: Questions to start great conversations.⁠⁠⁠⁠

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• ⁠⁠The YouVersion Bible App.⁠⁠

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In this episode of "Heart and Soulution," Mike and Kristen Jones, discuss relationships and grief. They begin with casual conversation about the end of their first podcast season, eventually revealing that they will be discussing the heavy topic of grief. They explore personal experiences with grief, noting that Kristen especially was not taught how to grieve effectively and that this avoidance proved problematic later in life. The conversation is informed by resources like the podcast, The Place We Find Ourselves, and Francis Weller's book, The Wild Edge of Sorrow, with the Mike and Kristen drawing parallels between Weller's concepts and biblical perspectives on mourning. They include the passage about beauty for ashes in Isaiah 61:3. Ultimately, they reflect on healthy grieving processes for individuals and couples, emphasizing the importance of not avoiding grief and offering support to those who are suffering.

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Reference material and Resources to dive deeper:

• Weller, Frances; The Wild Edge of Sorrow: Rituals of Renewal and the Sacred Work of Grief; 2015; North Atlantic Books.

• The Place We Find Ourselves podcast with Adam Young; Five part series on grief (episode 132).

• ⁠The YouVersion Bible App.⁠

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Want to know how to stop the hamster wheel in your relationship? In this episode of Heart and Soulution, Mike and Kristen Jones discuss the concept of the "crazy cycle" in romantic relationships, which they relate to Dr. Emerson Eggerichs's book, Love and Respect, derived from Ephesians 5 in the Bible. The core idea is that disrespect from the wife causes a lack of love from the husband, which in turn causes more disrespect, creating a self-perpetuating cycle that must be broken by one partner choosing to change their behavior, focusing on unconditional love and unconditional respect. The hosts emphasize the importance of emotional intelligence, managing expectations, and clear communication for couples to prevent or exit this cycle, making a crucial caveat near the end.

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Reference material and Resources to dive deeper:

• • Dr. Gary Smalley's "Keys to Lasting and Loving Relationships"

• Chapman, Gary D., and Jennifer M. Thomas. The Five Languages of Apology: How to Experience Healing in All Your Relationships. Moody Publishers, 2008. Follow on instagram.

• Chapman, Gary D. The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts. Northfield Publishing, 2015. Follow on Instagram.

• Scazzero, P., & Scazzero, G. (2022). Emotionally Healthy Relationships: Discipleship that deeply changes your relationship with others (Updated ed.). Zondervan. EHS Website.

• The YouVersion Bible App.

• ⁠⁠⁠⁠Table Topics Tabletop Sets: Questions to start great conversations.⁠⁠⁠⁠

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In this episode of "Heart and Soulution," hosts Mike and Kristen Jones focus on improving marriage and relationships with a biblical perspective. The discussion centers on a recent marriage conference they hosted, utilizing material from an organization called Grace Marriage, which emphasizes a grace-based rather than performance-based approach to relationships. Throughout the episode, the hosts introduce and discuss several biblical principles and verses related to conflict resolution, humility, and intentionality, such as Proverbs 15:1 and Philippians 4:8, offering practical advice like the "621 challenge" for dedicated time together and the "boxing or dancing" analogy for approaching disagreements. They conclude by encouraging listeners to focus on self-reflection and serving their spouse, hinting at future episodes that will explore specific roles within marriage.

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Reference material and Resources to dive deeper:

• Check out material from the Parrott's by visiting their website or by following them on instagram @lesandleslie.

• Learn more about the ministry resources of Grace Marriage at their website or by following them on Instagram @grace_marriage.

• ⁠⁠⁠Table Topics Tabletop Sets: Questions to start great conversations.⁠⁠⁠

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