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Last week, we talked about this powerful truth: you’re not broken—you’re becoming.
But here’s the next question every husband needs to ask:

What is my becoming doing to my marriage?

In this episode, Paul explores how spiritual formation doesn’t stay personal—it always becomes relational. The work God is doing in you as a son is meant to shape how you show up as a husband. When a man lives from secure sonship instead of striving, his marriage feels the difference.

You’ll discover:

• How knowing you’re a son of God changes the way you lead at home
• Why formation exposes old patterns like control, withdrawal, or defensiveness
• How marriage becomes one of God’s primary tools for shaping a man
• What it looks like to lead with security instead of fear
• A practical way to let God’s work in you bless your marriage this week

This episode is for husbands who want their growth with God to actually change the atmosphere of their home—not just their private faith.

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Have you ever wondered if you’ve messed up too much to become the man, husband, or father God created you to be?

In this opening episode of Season 3, we confront one of the most common—and quiet—lies men carry: “I’m too far gone.” Many husbands feel tired, discouraged, and weighed down by past mistakes, unmet expectations, and the pressure to fix what feels broken.

But what if your struggle isn’t a sign of failure?
What if it’s evidence that God is still forming you?

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why shame convinces men they’re disqualified
• The difference between striving and sonship
• How God forms men through unfinished places
• Why faithfulness matters more than perfection
• A simple 14-day practice to help you stay present and grounded

Season 3 is about slowing down, releasing pressure, and learning to show up with humility and confidence—in your marriage, your leadership, and your walk with God.

You’re not broken.
You’re becoming.

New episodes drop bi-weekly.

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The holidays are supposed to be joyful—but for many men, they feel heavy.

In this Season 2 finale of the Heart of a Husband Podcast, Paul speaks directly to the pressure men carry during the holidays: financial strain, emotional expectations, family dynamics, exhaustion, and the quiet weight of trying to hold everything together.

This episode isn’t about escaping the pressure—it’s about standing strong in the middle of it.

You’ll be encouraged and equipped to:

• Lead your home with peace instead of pressure
• Guard your heart when expectations rise
• Stay emotionally present without burning out
• Keep your identity rooted in Christ—not performance
• End the year grounded, grateful, and steady

If you’ve felt stretched thin, misunderstood, or quietly overwhelmed this season, this conversation is for you.

As we close out Season 2, this episode is a reminder:
You don’t have to carry it all alone—and you don’t have to lose yourself to lead well.

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When life gets heavy, gratitude often feels like the last thing a man wants to practice. But what if it’s actually the key to emotional strength, spiritual clarity, and a healthier marriage?

In this episode, Paul unpacks how gratitude reframes your reality, softens the rough edges of your spirit, and reconnects you to your wife in ways stress and pressure have tried to shut down. Backed by Scripture and research, you’ll discover why gratitude isn’t a seasonal idea—it’s a strategic discipline that can transform the way you lead your home.

You’ll learn:
• Why gratitude changes the way you see your life
• How it heals irritability, hurry, and emotional numbness
• The simple practice that increases marital connection
• How to stay grateful when life feels heavy
• A practical challenge that can strengthen your relationship this week

If your marriage needs fresh warmth, if your heart needs recalibration, or if you simply want to become the man God is shaping you to be—this episode is for you.

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You don’t confess to be punished — you confess to be free.

In this second part of The Power of Community series, Paul Harris shares how real strength is found when men stop hiding and start helping each other carry the weight.
Using James 5:16 and Galatians 6:2, Paul unpacks how confession opens the door to healing and why true brotherhood means bearing burdens, not judging hearts.

You’ll also hear this week’s Husbands Want to Know segment — tackling what to do when trust has been broken — and the Husband’s Love Challenge, a practical step to help you love your wife and lead with grace.

💭 Freedom grows where honesty lives, and healing happens when men walk together.

Listen if you’re ready to:

• Break free from isolation through confession and community
• Learn to carry another man’s burden without judgment
• Strengthen your marriage through humility and prayer
• Discover the kind of brotherhood that heals, not hides

Scripture References:
James 5:16 | Galatians 6:2

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Every husband faces moments of pressure, temptation, and isolation — but no man was meant to walk alone.

In this episode of Heart of a Husband, Paul Harris unpacks why every man needs brothers in Christ — men who lift you up when you fall, speak truth when you drift, and remind you who you are when life gets heavy.

Drawing from Ecclesiastes 4 and Hebrews 10, and inspired by a story from John Eldredge’s Wild at Heart, Paul shares how real brotherhood brings strength, healing, and spiritual protection.

You’ll also hear the Husbands Want to Know segment, where Paul answers a real question from a husband trying to build godly friendships — plus this week’s Husband’s Love Challenge to help you connect more deeply at home and in community.

You weren’t made to do this alone. Brotherhood is God’s design, not man’s idea.

Listen if you’re ready to:

• Break free from isolation and find authentic community
• Learn how godly friendships can strengthen your marriage
• Discover biblical truth about brotherhood and confession
• Take practical steps toward spiritual growth and accountability

Scripture References:
Ecclesiastes 4:9–10
Hebrews 10:24–25

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Did you know that something as simple as a hug can change the atmosphere of your marriage? In this episode of Heart of a Husband, we explore the power of intentional touch and why physical connection outside the bedroom matters more than most husbands realize.

We’ll unpack why hugs lower stress, build safety, and create intimacy, and I’ll give you a simple framework to start practicing “The Hug Test” in your own marriage this week. You’ll discover how three intentional hugs a day can bring you and your wife closer than you’ve been in years.

This is a fun, practical, and hope-filled episode that will challenge you to love your wife with purpose in the everyday moments.

Don’t forget—you can also watch and subscribe to the Heart of a Husband podcast on our YouTube channel for more weekly encouragement.

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What if I told you that you already have a superpower in your marriage—and you may not even know it? In this episode of Heart of a Husband, we’ll uncover the hidden strengths God has already placed in you to make your wife feel loved, safe, and pursued. It’s not about grand gestures or expensive gifts—it’s the small, consistent things that often mean the most.

We’ll talk about how to discover your unique “marriage superpower,” how to use it with purpose, and why it has the power to transform your connection. This episode is lighthearted, practical, and full of encouragement for husbands who want to step into their calling as leaders in the home.

At the end, you’ll walk away with one simple challenge you can put into practice this week to love your wife more intentionally.

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