In this conversation, Rina explores the concept of intimacy as a skill that can be trained rather than merely a reaction to stress or loneliness. She discusses the societal tendency towards consumption in intimacy, the importance of education in fostering deeper connections, and the evolving role of intimacy workers. Rina emphasizes the need for a shift from quick fixes to meaningful relationships, highlighting the significance of understanding one's own needs and the impact of the nervous system on intimacy. The conversation also touches on empowering women in the realm of intimacy and the transformative potential of intimate experiences.

00:00 Redefining Intimacy: Beyond Consumerism

07:25 The Shift from Transaction to Depth in Intimacy

11:33 The Role of True Intimacy in Personal Growth

18:56 The Evolution of Intimacy Workers and Education

24:47 From Consumption to Creation: A New Paradigm

30:46 Empowering Women: The Shift in Intimacy Services

34:39 Nervous System Health: The Foundation of Intimacy

Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.

This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.

Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

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If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

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Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/

Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/

Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training

https://www.suhai.world/

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Shibari didn’t start as liberation for either of us.

It became one - slowly, painfully, honestly.

In this episode with Anastasia (Voudou Ropes) we talk about:

– learning Shibari as women in a male-dominated culture

– the danger of intensity without attunement

– how rope can either traumatize or transform

– why some journeys need storms… and others need lakes

No script. No performance. Just truth, rope, and lived experience.

Anastasia is a Shibari artist, educator, and performer, and the founder of Voudou Ropes, a brand devoted to making rope art accessible, expressive, and deeply connective.

2026 October 8-12th beginners shibari + tantra retreat.

https://www.voudouropes.com/shibari-retreat-luxe

https://www.voudouropes.com/

https://www.instagram.com/voudou.ropes/

Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.

This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.

Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library

Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com

If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

Let’s Connect!

Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/

Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/

Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training

https://www.suhai.world/

Do you actually feel at home in your home? In this episode, Rina speaks with architect and author Talor Stewart, creator of Conscious Home Design, about how your space can support your happiness, relationships, and daily rituals. You’ll learn simple, practical ways to turn any apartment or house into a nourishing “happy place” — using light, layout, and intention, not big budgets.

Talor Stewart, Architect.

Conscious Home Design, Inc.

#1 best selling book Conscious Home Design available for instant download on his website: ConsciousHomeDesign.com

Also offering certification for architects and designers in the CHD system and methodology.

yes@conscioushomedesign.com

https://www.instagram.com/conscioushomedesign/

Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.

This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.

Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library

If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

Let’s Connect!

Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com

Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/

Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/

Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training

https://www.suhai.world/

In this juicy and transformational episode, Rina sits down with Darshana Avila, Erotic Wholeness Guide, to explore the one skill most people never learn but desperately need: how to receive.

Together, they dive into why so many women (and men) struggle to take in the very things they say they want—pleasure, connection, intimacy, desire, emotional safety—and how cultural conditioning, nervous system patterns, and unspoken fears silently block us from receiving the love and pleasure we crave.

You’ll hear real examples, practical tools, and vulnerable stories about:

– How people-pleasing kills desire

– What resentment really reveals

– Nervous system capacity & the body’s role in pleasure

– How to ask for what you want without shame

– How to communicate desires, boundaries, and kinks with clarity and love

– Why telling the truth is the gateway to deeper intimacy

This episode is an intimate map for anyone ready to open wider—to pleasure, to truth, to being seen, and to receiving fully.

Perfect for listeners longing for more authentic relationships, deeper erotic fulfillment, or simply a more honest connection with themselves.

Darshana Avila is a trauma-informed somatic educator, practitioner and international speaker who helps people reconnect with the most essential aspects of themselves — their truth, their desires, and their capacity for profound pleasure and power.

Known for her grounded, candid, and relational approach, she bridges the worlds of erotic embodiment, trauma healing and self actualization.

Darshana’s work has been featured on Netflix’s Sex, Love & goop, The Guardian, The New Yorker, and numerous leading podcasts.

WEBSITE

darshanaavila.com

SOCIAL HANDLES

instagram.com/darshana_avila

youtube.com/@darshana-avila

linkedin.com/in/darshana-avila

FREE GIFT

skool.com/galgasm

Galgasm! is a free online community hub for women and AFAB folks ready to live, love and lead from their deepest pleasure and power. With a library full of resources and live-taught workshops and Q&A sessions with Darshana, it's a wonderful way to begin your journey to Erotic Wholeness.

Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.

This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.

Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library

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If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

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Most people try to be attractive through looks or confidence, but the real source of magnetism is developing a personal superpower — a skill or presence that allows you to connect, attune, and offer value to others from fullness, not neediness. In this episode, Rina explores how attunement, embodied skills, and conscious practices like touch, Shibari, energy work, and empathic listening can make you irresistible, deepen intimacy, and transform your relationships, community interactions, and love life.

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library

If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

Let’s Connect!

Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/

Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/

Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training

https://www.suhai.world/

Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com

One of the greatest discoveries of my life has been realizing that my sacred center is a portal—to pleasure, healing, intimacy, and ultimately, to God.

In this episode, I share the journey that began when I was 23, receiving my first sacred massage in Thailand, and how that experience transformed numbness into bliss and redefined my relationship with sexuality.

Together, we’ll explore:

• The stages of awakening from physical numbness to deep pleasure
• How sexuality can become a legitimate spiritual path
• The different realms of pleasure—physical, emotional, energetic, and spiritual
• Why every woman’s body is capable of ecstasy and connection to the divine
• How shame and pain can transform into devotion and expansion

This episode is an invitation to honor your sacred body as a living temple and to discover how conscious pleasure can lead to profound healing and spiritual awakening.

If this message resonates with you, I invite you to join the upcoming Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony Practitioner Training (Nov 14–16, Austin, TX) — a transformative immersion into the art of sacred touch, presence, and devotion.

Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training

https://www.suhai.world/

Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.

This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.

Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library

If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

Let’s Connect!

Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/

Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/

Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com

In this episode, Rina and Suriya Nikko explore the foundations of female pleasure through the lens of pelvic floor health and sacred intimacy. You’ll learn how the pelvic floor influences arousal and wellbeing, why presence and attunement are essential for deepening intimacy, and how ancient tantric wisdom meets modern understanding of the body.

Chapters

00:00 Exploring Female Pleasure

01:21 Understanding Pelvic Floor Health

03:36 The Balance of Relaxation and Tension

05:36 Creating Space for Intimacy

07:05 Holistic Approaches to Pleasure

09:54 The Importance of Authentic Expression

14:30 Safety and Vulnerability in Intimacy

17:58 Sisterhood and Shared Experiences

20:31 Invitation to Healing and Training

Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training

https://www.suhai.world/

Suriya has extensive background in helping individuals attain inner peace and healing through yoga therapy, tantric bodywork & sex education.

Suriya is a practitioner and guide, whose life's work is dedicated to empowering women on their journeys towards self-discovery and fulfillment. Her candid and holistic approach is presented as a beacon of light for those seeking transformative change in their lives.

Her studies of Tantra and various healing modalities facilitated the unraveling of her own femininity. Through her personal work, Suriya developed a profound acceptance of herself, a journey she now guides others to undertake.

Her instagram: https://www.instagram.com/my_sacred_yoni_massage/

Her online course on yoni massage: https://www.mysacredyonimassage.com/courses/sacred-yoni-massage-course/

Her book: https://www.amazon.com/Blossoming-Into-Bliss-Healing-Awakening/dp/099903040X

Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.

This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.

Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library

If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

Let’s Connect!

Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/

Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/

Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com

What does it really take for women to have multiple orgasms?

In this intimate solo episode, I open up about my own self-pleasure journey, my path as a Tantric bodyworker, and the wisdom I’ve gathered from guiding women through yoni massage and intimacy coaching for the past 8+ years.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why women are designed for multiple orgasms (and why most don’t realize it).
• The key mindset shift: why you shouldn’t stop after the first climax.
• The difference between clitoral and vaginal orgasms—and why blending them matters.
• The full yoni map (G-spot, A-spot, cervix, K-spot & more) and their orgasmic potential.
• How emotions like rage, grief, or tears can also be orgasmic releases.
• Why safety, attunement, and patience are essential for deeper orgasms.
• How tantric sexuality transforms pleasure into energy, creativity, and even spiritual insight.

Multiple orgasms are not just about more pleasure - they are about expansion. Expansion of body, heart, energy, and soul. When we allow ourselves to keep going, we unlock orgasm as a gateway to love, creativity, and even divinity.

👉 If you’re ready to experience this firsthand, join me for the Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony—a 3-day retreat & facilitator training where women receive and learn the art of yoni massage as a portal into healing and ecstatic potential.

Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training

https://www.suhai.world/

Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.

This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.

Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library

If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

Let’s Connect!

Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/

Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/

Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training

https://www.suhai.world/

Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com