Saying women’s pleasure is a MYTH when your wife tells you she’s unsatisfied is actually insane. Sir, she is giving you NOTES. 😭

This week’s Bestie-Mail centers marriage dilemmas and we're here for it!
You know Grant and Aja love love and love helping folks make better decisions in their relationships, set boundaries and be vocal about their needs and this episode calls for alladat.

These Besties need help navigating their situations!

Here are this week’s mail:

• My Husband Is Terrible at Sex, and I’m Thinking About Leaving
• Should I Propose Before I Can Afford Her Dream Ring?
• My Boyfriend Wants a Baby and Keeps Flirting With Other Women

As you dive in ask yourself:

Would you be wrong for fantasizing about your exes and considering leaving your husband after 12 years of terrible sex, even if you love the life you’ve built together? Or does how a person treats you during sex uncover thier TRUE intentions 👀

Should a man wait until he can afford a dream engagement ring, or propose now so everyone you love can be there?

And if you're dating someone who is talking about marriage and babies TWO MONTHS in while still entertaining other people, would you consider even planning a future with them? 👀

Lock in, Besties because Grant and I have a lot to say, and we need to hear what y’all think. 👀

Let’s talk in the comments.

Thank you to the Besties who trusted us with their stories. ❤️

Comment Your Thoughts!

Besties, let us know what y'all think on this one!

-Grant & Aja

Apparently, you can just PAY to go to a stranger's wedding now, and yall, I'm about to RSVP!

In this episode, Aja sits down with Jeff and Karina, the married couple behind Not a Wedding Crasher, who turned running out of date night ideas into a business that lets complete strangers attend your wedding.

And after 22 years together, these two know a thing or two about marriage. We get into everything from keeping romance alive to surviving an eight-month separation, building a business together, and learning how to love the different versions of your partner.

So besties, find something cute to wear and grab your plus-one because we're crashing a wedding! Who's coming with us?!

Comment Your Thoughts!

Besties, let us know what y'all think on this one!

-Grant & Aja

Dr. Nigel Marcellus is back on Hanging Out 4ever, and this time we're getting into some of YOUR relationship drama!

We're reading Bestie-Mail sent in from Dr. Nigels community and talking about Black love, interracial dating, whether you can be pro-Black with a white partner, navigating sexual fetishes, going through your partner's phone, and sharing locations in relationships.

And we're getting into some conversations that might ruffle a few feathers.

Besties, we'd LOVE to know your thoughts on interracial dating dynamics and if that changes your opinion of a person.

Let us know

Grant & Aja

Comment Your Thoughts!

Besties, let us know what y'all think on this one!

-Grant & Aja