Alex is back from a San Diego–Seattle stretch spent surrounded by women, prompting uncomfortable questions about attraction, performance, and identity. Davis is still reeling from an unexpected run-in with Connor Storrie at a bar—an encounter that cracked something open and refused to stay there. The two unpack how their daddy issues manifest in very different ways, from emotional aloofness to Davis’s constant hair changes, and what it means to be deeply gay while still affected by the people who get too close. A conversation about desire, distance, and the many ways interruption shapes who we think we are.

We're back and better than ever! This week on Gay, Interrupted, Davis and Alex are joined by internet personality Becca DiLuzio who critics say “probably wouldn’t be doing this if she was loved as a child,” for an unhinged, clinically curious conversation about pop culture, psychology, relationships, and online performance.

Becca opens up about recently opening her six-year heterosexual relationship, sparking a candid discussion on modern dating, non-monogamy, desire, and why women who choose visibility are endlessly psychoanalyzed by the internet. The trio also break down Becca’s infamous Valentine’s Day content, where she pretended to be stood up to secure a free dinner, and how it became a full-blown discourse moment about gender roles, influencer ethics, and internet morality.

They dive into making content as kids, reality TV brain rot, and the psychological through-lines between childhood creativity, attention, and adult survival strategies—because nothing says “mental health-adjacent podcast” like diagnosing TikTok behavior.

Meanwhile, chaos reigns: Davis recounts a fire alarm going off in the middle of an intimate encounter the night before, and Alex shares a story involving tear gas that is somehow both traumatic and hilarious.

It’s a funny, self-aware pop-psych deep dive into internet culture, queer friendship, modern relationships, and why everyone online thinks they’re your therapist.

Davis and Alex are joined by Amelia Ritthaler from Girls Rewatch for a deep dive into life as a chronically online, perpetually over-it New Yorker. Dating apps, Equinox, orgies, Megan Stalter, Lena Dunham and more!

Amelia talks about her chaotic, beloved ecosystem of gay friends, the chosen-family energy that keeps her sane, and the emotional archaeology of living in New York long enough to have “eras.” Together, they spiral through the holy trinity of millennial-woman canon: Sex and the City, Girls, and Broad City, unpacking what each show got right, what each show derailed, and why all of them feel like scripture for messy people with rent-stabilized trauma.

And, of course, Amelia explains with precision and venom exactly why she hates dating, how romance in NYC feels like unpaid labor, and why she would rather hang out with her gays than listen to one more man monologue about his “creative project.”

It’s sharp, funny, nostalgic, and painfully relatable, like a group chat you absolutely should not screenshot. Tune in for a conversation that feels like brunch with friends who tell the truth.