ABOUT THE EPISODE:

If you’ve ever felt uncertain about what your teen or young adult might be using—and how easily accessible today’s substances have become—this episode is a must-listen. I sat down with Sebastian Martin, Executive Director at New Life House, a long-standing sober living program for young men, to unpack the alarming rise of so-called “gas station garbage”—substances like Kratom, kava, 7-0H, and “Feel Free” tonics that are marketed as harmless but can create dependency and serious mental health fallout.

With his deep professional experience and 15 years in recovery himself, Sebastian offers an inside look at what’s showing up in schools, treatment centers, and homes—and what parents need to know right now.

You’ll hear a candid, compassionate conversation where we explore how experimentation today can escalate much faster than it did even a decade ago, why isolation in a bedroom can be as concerning as chaotic, risky behavior, and how crucial community and connection are in early recovery—for both parents and their kids. We also discuss the life-changing potential of treatments like TMS (Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation) and what true collaboration between mental health and substance use professionals looks like when it’s done right.

What You’ll Learn:

• What “gas station garbage” really is and why it’s showing up in homes, schools, and even jails (but not on standard drug screens)
• Why today’s cannabis and other “legal” substances are nothing like what you may have experimented with as a teen
• How to recognize when isolation can be just as dangerous as acting out
• The essential role of healthy community for teens and young adults—and how parents can encourage it
• A powerful mindset shift for parents: how to love your child to life, not to death.

This conversation offers clarity and calm in a world of misinformation, helping you understand what’s happening beneath your child’s behavior—and reminding you that not all hope is lost.

EPISODE RESOURCES:

• New Life House website
• Hopestream podcast episode 241 with Dr. Martha Koo (TMS)
• DEA Fact Sheet on Kratom
• Information on the “Feel Free” tonic by Eleanor Health

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