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Feeling owned by your stuff? We explore a simple, humane way to take control: Make just one decision per item. Do I want it, or do I not want it? That single question cuts through analysis paralysis, whether you’re clearing a junk drawer, combining households, or guiding a parent through a major downsize. Along the way, we share real stories, from purging decades of academic journals to facing a room full of miniature houses, and the surprising relief that comes from choosing with intention.

Our guest, professional organizer Kristin Switzer of To Be Organized Tulsa, walks us through a start-small strategy that actually sticks. She explains how to beat overwhelm by finishing tiny zones, why you should delay sentimental items until you’ve built momentum, and how family can help without taking over: the helper sorts; the owner decides. For collections with market value, Kristen outlines when to call consignment, estate sale, or auction experts, and how to evaluate the tradeoff between top dollar and your time. We also dig into the psychology behind clutter, drawing on personality science to explain why even conscientious people can stall under stress.

Moving soon or moving to less? We share practical, field-tested systems to make transitions saner. Photograph favorite spaces so you can recreate comfort in a new home. Set category caps for art and books to fit smaller rooms. Use a two-part labeling system—colors by room, numbers on every box—backed by a simple spreadsheet so you can find winter coats or bakeware in minutes. If you’re helping an aging parent, consider moving them first and editing after, then add a large digital frame to keep cherished memories visible without filling shelves.

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