Dr. S. Irfan Ali talks to Robin Allison Davis, an Emmy Award-winning journalist and author of Surviving Paris, shares her journey of leaving a successful career in New York to pursue a new life in Paris, only to be diagnosed with breast cancer at age 34 shortly after her plans began falling into place. She discusses the shock of receiving a cancer diagnosis while living alone abroad, the challenges of navigating treatment far from family, and the emotional toll of a cancer recurrence during COVID-19. Robin reflects on losing and regaining a sense of control, choosing not to let fear or illness define her identity, and intentionally staying connected through therapy, faith, friendship, and community. She explains why her memoir focuses on "surviving Paris" rather than simply surviving cancer, highlighting the broader challenges of building a life in a foreign country. Ultimately, her story is one of resilience, embracing uncertainty, pursuing experiences without delay, and continuing to fully participate in life despite fear, setbacks, and an unknowable future.

• Why courage is often making a decision without any guarantee that it will work out.
• How a life-changing diagnosis can completely alter even the most carefully planned future.
• The emotional realities of facing cancer alone while living far from family and familiar support systems.
• Why surviving a serious illness once does not necessarily make future health challenges less frightening.
• How therapy, faith, friendship, and community can become powerful tools for resilience and healing.
• The importance of maintaining your identity beyond a diagnosis and refusing to let illness define who you are.
• What it takes to adapt and build a meaningful life in a new country despite unexpected setbacks.
• How major life challenges can inspire people to stop postponing dreams and start embracing new experiences.
• Why resilience is often found in everyday choices, such as staying connected, staying active, and continuing to engage with life.
• How embracing uncertainty and participating fully in life, despite fear, can become a powerful path to personal growth.

Timestamps:

00:00 Intro

00:12 Introduction

02:13 Moving to Paris

03:56 Cancer diagnosis

05:36 Delivery unfortunate news to a patient

07:33 Reaction to cancer discovery

10:11 How cancer changes your life

11:38 Cancer relapse

14:48 Keeping a positive outlook

16:38 Writing "Surviving Paris"

19:01 Accomplishments

21:55 Who is Robin Davis today?

24:45 Recipe for writing

26:39 The benefit of hindsight

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At 29, award-winning author Samina Ali went into the hospital to deliver her first child — and nearly died. A cascade of undiagnosed pregnancy complications led to a subarachnoid hemorrhage, a mild heart attack, multiple organ failure, and a coma. When she woke up, she couldn't speak English, didn't recognize her husband, and had no memory of giving birth.

In this raw and moving conversation with Dr. S. Irfan Ali, Samina shares how she relearned to walk, talk, and mother a child she couldn't remember having — and how writing, which doctors told her would never be possible again, became the very thing that helped rebuild her mind. She opens up about identity, faith, cultural expectations, and what it really means to survive when there's no roadmap back to who you were.

Samina Ali is the author of "Madras on Rainy Days" and the memoir "Pieces You Will Never Get Back: A Memoir of Unlikely Survival."

What You'll Learn

- What actually happens in the brain and body during a medical crisis like eclampsia, stroke, and subarachnoid hemorrhage

- Why brain injury recovery isn't linear — and why "getting back to normal" isn't the right framework

- How Samina relearned language, memory, and even how to bond with her own son

- Why a neurologist told her she'd never write again — and what made her refuse to accept that

- How writing itself became part of her neurological recovery, not just a product of it

- How trauma became an unexpected doorway to shedding cultural and family expectations she'd never chosen for herself

- Her perspective on faith, interfaith similarities, and finding meaning after suffering — without claiming suffering happens "for a reason"

- Practical wisdom for anyone facing their own "fracture": a diagnosis, divorce, loss, or shattered plans

Timestamps

00:00 – Introduction: Samina Ali's story and background

01:00 – The trauma: losing English, relearning to live, and her published works

03:00 – "Are you the same person?" — reflecting on 19 years since the injury

04:00 – What happened during delivery: dismissed symptoms, seizure, stroke, coma

07:00 – Waking up with no memory of her baby or husband; living in survival mode

10:00 – Why brain damage isn't like healing a broken bone — "you never fully recover"

11:00 – The neurologist's prediction that she'd never write again

13:00 – Turning doctors' doubt into fuel to keep going

15:00 – Rereading her own manuscript and not remembering writing it; starting over

17:00 – Writing as part of the recovery process itself

19:00 – The myth of instant motherhood and "sibling rivalry" with her newborn

22:00 – Losing her old identity and rediscovering who she really was, free of inherited expectations

26:00 – Cultural pressure and the idea that "things happen for a reason"

27:00 – Faith, spirituality, and the shared foundation across religions

32:00 – The pieces she never got back — and the ones she's glad are gone

35:00 – Rapid-fire: one word for this season of life, a fear she's lost, a sacred habit

36:00– Advice for anyone in their own "Bardo" — facing loss, diagnosis, or a shattered plan

39:00 – Closing thoughts and thanks

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Dr. S. Irfan Ali sits down with Sarah and Raphael Perrier, co-founders of Kahwa Coffee — one of the largest coffee companies in Florida. Raphael, a former barista from France, and Sarah, a former professional ballet dancer, share how they went from running a nightclub in Philadelphia to building a coffee empire in St. Petersburg, FL. They open up about starting with nothing, surviving early failures, the meaning behind the name "Kahwa," working as married business partners, and what it really takes to build a brand people trust.

What You'll Learn

• How to transition from a completely different career (dance, hospitality) into building a business from scratch

• Why "building a brand" is fundamentally harder than opening a restaurant or nightclub — and what it actually takes to earn people's trust

• How to know when to walk away from a failing venture instead of doubling down out of stubbornness

• The value of persistence: landing a major account can take years (in this case, 17) — and why you shouldn't give up on the right opportunity

• Practical ground rules for running a business with your spouse without letting it damage the marriage (separate roles, "off-limits" hours, mutual respect)

• Why authenticity and community integration matter more long-term than trends or flashy renovations

• How to scale from a single location to multiple shops without losing consistency in product and culture

• The importance of storytelling and brand meaning (the "Kahwa" name story) in building customer connection

• Why focusing energy on what's already working beats trying to force a struggling part of the business to succeed

• That balancing sacrifice (time, energy) with protecting what matters most (family, health) is possible — and necessary — for long-term success

Chapters / Timestamps

00:00 – Introduction: Meet Sarah & Raphael, founders of Kahwa Coffee

00:56 – Sarah's journey: from professional ballet dancer to entrepreneur

03:09 – Raphael's start: barista at La Colombe, meeting Sarah

07:39 – Selling the nightclub, moving to Florida, "what's next?"

09:23 – Why they left the nightclub business behind

12:00 – Starting Kahwa: wholesale roasting from 2006

14:16 – The grand opening nobody came to — except one reporter

16:00 – From wholesale to their first coffee shop

22:49 – Scaling: from one shop to multiple locations

26:07 – The story and meaning behind the name “Kahwa"

29:22 – Biggest setbacks, failures, and lessons from COVID

35:33 – The 17-year wait to land the TradeWinds Hotel account

37:00 – Sacrifices of entrepreneurship

40:35 – Building culture, not just selling coffee

43:09 – Final advice for aspiring entrepreneurs

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