Episodi

  • 39, Single, Lonely And Feeling Forgotten
    Feb 21 2026

    If you’re single in your 30s or 40s and have ever felt left behind, forgotten or like everyone else’s lives have moved forward without you… this episode is a must listen.


    We’re talking about that pain that shows up when you’re single and:

    • Conversations with your friends don’t quite include you anymore
    • Weekends are quieter
    • Feeling like you’ve been pushed down the list of priorities of friends you still hold dear
    • Wondering where you fit in now.


    For single women over 30, this pain becomes more than just a moment.

    It can become your story.


    The one about being the last single friend, the one who’s never chosen, no longer a priority, the one life somehow skipped.

    But what if that feeling isn’t actually about being single?


    In this episode you’ll find a freeing perspective on this pain that most women never consider. It explains why:

    • Reassurance from friends never really changes how you feel
    • Relationships with men crumble before they’ve really taken off
    • This pain lingers even when your life looks full from the outside.


    This conversation will feel surprising, confronting, deeply relieving… likely all three!


    If this is a feeling you’ve been quietly carrying, hit play on this episode now.


    …and don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode xx

    RESOURCES:


    Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:


    For the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast

    Questions or comments?

    Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

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    16 min
  • “Where Are All the Decent, Available Men?”
    Feb 17 2026

    If you’ve been dating 5+ years and still haven’t met the right man…

    It feels like you’re living through a man drought…

    And dating apps are filled with emotionally unavailable men and hook-ups…


    This episode will challenge everything you thought about why decent available men feel so hard to find.


    Because what if the problem isn’t:

    · That you’re over 30

    · Men

    · Where you live

    · Dating apps

    · Or “bad timing”?


    What if it’s something that’s completely within your control to change?!


    Inside this episode, we talk about:

    · How the belief that there are no decent men left becomes the exact reason you’re not meeting them

    · The hidden way your thoughts about men determines the quality of men you meet

    · Why dating apps don’t deserve their bad rap (and what actually determines who you meet on them)

    · How the pressure to “find love” pushes the right men further away

    · The shift that turns dating into less effort, more reward.


    This isn’t about lowering your standards.

    And it’s definitely not about trying harder.


    It’s about understanding how love really happens so you can work with love, instead of fighting against it and coming up empty handed…again.


    If it feels like there just aren’t any decent, available men left, press play now!


    Ready to change this and Attract YOUR Man?!


    This is what I walk you through how to do inside AYM.

    Not by forcing yourself to date different.

    Not by lowering your standards.


    But by taking simple steps to follow the one rule love does.


    So that dating feels lighter.

    The right men start showing up.

    And you stop trying so damn hard.


    Click here for Attract YOUR Man: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast

    …and if this episode helped you finally make sense of why the decent, available men feel so hard to find, please share it with a friend you know has been finding this hard too!

    RESOURCES:


    Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:


    For the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast

    Questions or comments?

    Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

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    17 min
  • “Maybe Love’s Just Not Meant for Me?”
    Feb 14 2026

    If you’ve ever had the thought “maybe love’s just not meant for me” this is the episode for you.


    It’s the heart-breaking assumption so many women make when you’ve spent years dating and you’re exhausted by it all; swiping on dating apps, the false hope, emotional whiplash.


    …and it feels like letting go of love might actually hurt less than continuing to try.


    Inside this episode you’ll undeniably see that the idea of idea of love not being “meant for you” comes from a false belief about love and that if you want love, it IS meant for you.


    This isn’t dating advice.


    And it’s not a “be more positive” pep talk.


    It’s a deeper conversation about how love really work and why the pain you feel around dating might just be pointing you towards something you’ve never been shown before about love.


    If you’ve ever felt like giving up on dating, giving up on love...DON'T. Hit play on this episode instead!


    Want to find love already?


    If this episode hit something in you, Attract YOUR Man is for the women who are done dating the hard way and want a different path to love… that actually gets you there!


    Click here for Attract YOUR Man: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast.


    And if this episode feels like something a friend needs to hear, please share it with her.


    Sometimes it’s an honest conversation like this that changes everything for someone.

    RESOURCES:


    Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:


    For the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast

    Questions or comments?

    Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

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    15 min
  • How To Use This Podcast To Find Love... FAST!
    Feb 7 2026

    Find Love With Emily isn’t just a podcast where you listen, learn something new and move on.


    This podcast is here to help you create real change that you want to see in your love life.


    In this episode, I share how to use this podcast to do exactly that.


    So that it's not just something you have a nice time listening to, but something that really leads you to love.


    We talk about:


    • Why waiting for dating to “start working” actually keeps you stuck
    • What to do when nothing seems to be happening in your love life at all
    • How to break out of the the patterns you're sick of
    • How unexpected, small, simple steps taken now, will start to change things for you.


    What I share is a HUGE part of how I met my husband so fast (and a “hack” all my AYM students know!).


    Recommended reading: 'The Compound Effect' by Darren Hardy.


    And if you don’t want to just dabble in changing your love life... because you want to find love in the next few months:


    Your next step is to join Attract YOUR Man, where I guide you through daily steps to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man. Click here to get started: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast

    RESOURCES:


    Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:


    For the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast

    Questions or comments?

    Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

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    10 min
  • This Makes Finding Love Simple
    Feb 7 2026

    Here’s why finding love doesn’t have to be complicated:


    Inside episode #1 of Find Love With Emily, I introduced you to the one rule love follows.


    Today, we take it a step further.


    If dating feels exhausting, confusing or like you’re constantly trying to forcing something to happen, this episode will help you understand why and how love becomes so much simpler to find when you start working with the way love really happen.


    We talk about:


    - Why typical dating advice makes it harder to find love

    - Why love doesn’t follow effort, strategy, panic or pressure

    - How fear, worry and “unloving” beliefs push love away

    - What it really means to follow the one rule love does day-to-day

    - The 4 predictable stages women move through when they start following love’s rule

    - The changes that happen when the dating “handbrake” comes off


    You’ll see why finding love doesn’t have to be so hard or complicated (and why trying harder was never the answer).


    So, if you’re exhausted by dating because nothing seems to work and you don’t want to give up on love, hit play on this episode now!


    And then??


    Let me guide you through the steps, tools and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man.


    Click HERE to Attract YOUR Man.

    RESOURCES:


    Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:


    For the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast

    Questions or comments?

    Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

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    21 min
  • Why Love Feels So Hard To Find (Even When You've Done Everything "Right")
    Feb 6 2026

    You’ve tried the dating apps.

    You’ve tried to be in your “feminine energy” and heal your anxious attachment.

    You’ve stay hopeful.


    And yet… you’re still single.


    If you’re exhausted, confused and heartbroken by dating, this episode is for you.


    Inside this first episode of Find Love With Emily, I share the truth about why dating just doesn’t work for so many smart, self-aware women in their 30s and 40s who want love.


    And why typical dating advice is never the answer!


    We talk about why all the effort you’ve put into dating is actually making it harder to find love and what the exhaustion you feel is trying to tell you.


    If you want real, lasting love, it isn’t about swiping harder, playing games, being the woman men want or luck.


    It’s about understanding how love really happens and what needs to shift to finally attract YOUR man!


    If it feels like you’ve tried everything to find love, dating hasn’t worked and you don’t know why you’re still single, press play now!


    If you’re done with Option 1 (dating harder), Option 2 (giving up on love) is a No and you’re ready for Option 3 (to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man)…

    Click HERE to get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love.

    RESOURCES:


    Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:


    For the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast

    Questions or comments?

    Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

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    16 min