What happens when the life you were told to want feels lifeless?

In this episode, Veronica continues sharing her story—the unraveling of a traditional marriage, confronting the verbal abuse that damaged her self-esteem, and the fierce freedom that followed when she stopped living by rules that never fit.

Veronica began questioning everything: monogamy, desire, loyalty, and the quiet shame women are taught to carry around their wants. Liberation followed.

Through deeply personal stories—including long-term lovers, falling for a married man, and a spontaneous threesome in Ireland that still makes her swoon—Veronica explores what it really means to choose happiness over society's approval.

This is a conversation about:

• Why “doing everything right” can feel unbearable
• How a woman's desire gets framed differently than a man's
• And what freedom can look like when you stop asking for permission

This episode isn’t about right or wrong. It’s about telling the truth—and letting that be enough.

What happens when you return to the places where your secrets were lived—and finally say them out loud? In this episode, we hit record on the road and open into a candid conversation about infidelity, erotic shame, and the pull of breaking rules, while staying honest about the real-world consequences.

I share why stories of women who cheat have always felt both true and electric to me, and why bringing that truth into the light is equal parts unsettling and necessary. Veronica joins me, sharing her journey that moves from survival to self-ownership: leaving an abusive marriage, exploring desire, and creating firm boundaries that made room for her safety, clarity, and pleasure.

We talk about her carefully structured “roster,” a risky affair that tested values and empathy, and the moment when fantasy collided with reality. When guilt arrives, Veronica chose accountability without spectacle—no revenge, no humiliating details—just a decision to move forward without burning everything down.

There are no easy heroes or villains here. Instead, we sit in the nuance: why taboo can be erotic, how power can return through structure and consent, and how compassion can exist for those who are hurt without weaponizing their pain. Faith appears as humility rather than judgment.

If you’ve ever wrestled with cheating as a kink or the narratives that dictated what a “good woman” is supposed to want, this episode invites you to listen with curiosity. Expect frank conversation and a humane look at complicated truths.

If this resonates, follow the show, share it with someone who enjoys honest conversations, and leave a review. And if you’re a sex-positive woman with a filthy little story to tell, we’d love to hear from you.

In this intense and provocative episode, host Marvin (aka Morgan Hale) and guest, Kyera Kacey, step into the jagged topic of infidelity—a subject loaded with both eroticism and immense pain. The episode addresses two groups of women. Women cheating on partners or sleeping with someone else's partner. And women who have been cheated on. Kyera shares her personal experiences with infidelity, ranging from being a betrayed spouse to being an active participant in extramarital affairs as a way to cope with her own trauma. Together, they explore the complex emotions and the possibility of healing and self-discovery beyond betrayal. They also touch on the idea of turning pain into power and the concept of alchemy—transforming a 'shitty' situation into something extraordinary. This episode challenges listeners to confront their own judgments and embrace a path towards liberation and love.

About Kyera: https://www.kyerakacey.com/
About the show: https://filthylittlesecrets.com/
About Marvin's books: https://morganhalebooks.com/

Video version of this episode: https://youtu.be/H2QqS9wS75c