Dating in your 30s plus can make you feel like you're running out of time, but Carla Romo is here to shut that down. In this episode, she breaks down why people comment on her marriage, the awkward pressure of splitting the bill, and the fear of "settling". Carla Romo explains how societal expectations shape self-worth, why emotional intelligence matters, and what it means when the sex isn't as good as it was with someone from your past.

What You'll Learn

• Why you feel "out of time" when dating in your 30s

• How societal pressure influences your dating choices

• Why comments about your relationship can trigger insecurity

• The real reason splitting the bill feels so loaded

• Why self-worth matters more than timelines

• How emotional intelligence improves your dating decisions

• What it means when sex isn't as good as it was with someone from your past

• Why trust and connection make intimacy grow

• How to communicate sexual needs without shame

• Why you're in control of your dating pace
  
  

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No Filter: The Sex Guide Every Dater Needs

Book:

Contagious Love: Break Free From Codependency for Damn Good

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Sound Bites:

"Time is BS right now."

"You are doing the choosing."

"Pleasure grows with trust."

Chapters

00:00 — Choosing Yourself in Dating

05:24 — TURNED OFF: Splitting the Bill

14:05 — Feeling Out of Time in Your 30s Plus

28:21 — TACO: When the Sex Isn't as Good as Someone From Your Past

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