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Episode Summary 08: What Is Collaborative Parenting? Real Parent Story

Episode Summary 08: What Is Collaborative Parenting? Real Parent Story

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 When you started parenting, you probably had ideas about the kind of parent you wanted to be. Maybe you imagined patient bedtimes and peaceful mornings. Then reality hit, and you found yourself doing things you swore you'd never do. Parent Maile Grace knows this feeling well. In this conversation, she shares how her parenting values have shifted since her daughter was born. She talks about moving away from strategies like timeouts that seemed to work in the moment but didn't align with what she truly wanted for her relationship with her child. You'll hear how she supports her kids when they're fighting instead of jumping in to fix everything, and why building connections with neighbors matters more to her now than having a perfectly organized home. If you've ever wondered whether collaborative parenting actually works in real life, this episode gives you a peek into one family's experience. Questions this episode will answer What is collaborative parenting? Collaborative parenting means working with your child to solve problems instead of using punishments or rewards to control their behavior. It involves understanding what your child is struggling with and finding solutions that work for everyone. What are parenting values? Parenting values are the principles that guide how you want to raise your children and the kind of relationships you want to build with them. They often include things like respect, connection, autonomy, and understanding. How do children solve problems? Children learn problem-solving skills when adults support them through conflicts rather than immediately fixing things. They practice identifying their own feelings and what matters to them, then working together to find solutions. What is collaborative problem solving? Collaborative problem solving is an approach where parents help children navigate challenges by exploring what's hard for everyone involved and creating solutions together, rather than imposing consequences or rewards. How much sibling fighting is normal? Sibling conflicts are a regular part of childhood. Instead of trying to eliminate fighting completely, parents can focus on supporting children through these moments to help them develop problem-solving and relationship skills. Why is parent collaboration important? When parents work collaboratively with children, kids learn to understand their own feelings and what matters to them. This approach builds stronger relationships and helps children develop skills they'll use throughout their lives. What you'll learn in this episode
  1. How one parent's values shifted from wanting a "well-behaved" child to prioritizing connection and understanding
  2. Why some common parenting strategies work in the short term but can damage relationships over time
  3. A real example of how collaborative problem-solving looks when siblings are fighting
  4. How to support children in working through conflicts without immediately stepping in to fix things
  5. What it means to let go of trying to control your child's behavior
  6. Why building neighborhood connections became a higher priority than maintaining a perfectly organized home
  7. The difference between parenting strategies that change behavior and approaches that build skills and relationships

Taming Your Triggers If you see that your relationship with your child isn’t where you want it to be because you:
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