Physician families do not need a "perfect" division of labor, they need a realistic one. In Part 2 of our Fair Play conversation, we move from concepts into application and talk about how to make the Fair Play framework work when medicine does not cooperate with routines, predictability, or a normal workweek.

We name the reality that 60, 70, 80-hour weeks are not "flexible hours," and also the important question that follows: when the physician is home, what happens during those hours? We talk about the difference between needing to decompress (human) and becoming consistently unavailable for household participation (a dynamic that slowly breaks trust).

From there, we get practical about "cards" and ownership, specifically: what responsibilities can a busy physician genuinely own from start to finish, and how do you choose those in a way that reduces resentment instead of creating more?

• The "reality check" of physician schedules, and why fairness cannot look like a simple 50/50 split

• The nuance of being physically home, but mentally and emotionally tapped out

• Decompression vs chronic unavailability, and why that distinction matters

• How to decide which Fair Play "cards" a physician can truly own

• Practical criteria for picking responsibilities that work in physician life:

  • tasks with flexible timing

  • tasks aligned with the physician's interests/strengths

  • tasks where their unique input really matters

• Examples of "physician-owned" commitments that can work even with changing rotations (like a consistent weekly tradition, kids' activities, or bedtime on specific days)

Next, we'll hear from each of our spouses about the process from their perspective, what was harder than expected, what helped, and what changed.

• Fair Play by Eve Rodsky

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