Have you ever noticed how easy it is to find "proof" that you're unlovable, unsafe, or destined to be abandoned—while your brain somehow overlooks all the moments you were actually cared for and supported? That's not you being dramatic or broken. That's confirmation bias, and after trauma, it becomes a powerful filter that keeps you stuck in old pain.

In this episode of Beyond Survival: A Pathway to Peace, Naomi unpacks how confirmation bias works in a trauma-impacted brain, how it feeds beliefs like "Everyone always leaves me," and why your nervous system clings to those stories as a form of protection. You'll hear a personal example from Naomi's own life, plus relatable everyday scenarios in relationships, work, and friendships where this bias quietly shapes how you see yourself and others.

Most importantly, you'll learn gentle, practical tools to start shifting it. Naomi walks you through:

• A simple CBT "proof list" journaling exercise to test your painful beliefs and collect evidence for new, truer ones

• Compassionate ways to honor how those beliefs once kept you safe, without letting them run your adult life

• Somatic practices like progressive muscle relaxation, resourcing (creating an internal safe place), and grounding movement to help your body feel the safety your mind is relearning

This episode is for you if you:

• Feel stuck in cycles of "I knew this would happen" and worst-case thinking

• Struggle to trust others, even when they've shown up for you

• Want to understand why your brain does this and how to gently retrain it without shaming yourself

By the end, you'll have both language and tools to notice your confirmation bias in real time, question whether it's telling the whole truth, and slowly teach your brain and body to look for evidence of safety, love, and support. One thought, one breath, one list at a time, you can move from surviving old stories to living in a fuller, kinder reality.