Creating Space: My Path to Becoming a Mom in My Forties

From chronic pain and shutdown to real healing — this is why I'm doing this now, and why I'm documenting the whole journey. Your body always tells the truth before your mind will. Follow for the full 30-day series.

Kole shares her personal story of overcoming chronic pain, restructuring her life, healing, and running a business with clarity. She discusses her decision to have a baby later in life, the societal pressures women face, and the emotional and physical challenges that come with it. Kole also talks about her unique approach to marriage, her supportive relationship with her husband, and their plans to move to Spain.

Throughout, Kole emphasizes the importance of creating a nurturing environment and maintaining emotional and physical health for a successful fertility journey.

00:00 Introduction to Beyond the Clock

02:16 The Journey to Motherhood Begins

03:12 Fertility Challenges and Societal Pressures

04:22 Personal Reflections and Decisions

07:33 Marriage and Annual Vows Renewal

09:03 The Decision to Have a Baby

10:45 Healing and Preparing the Body

13:48 Emotional and Physical Health

22:27 Tracking Fertility and Future Plans

25:12 Adjusting to the Journey of Conceiving

26:13 Health and Fertility Challenges

27:32 Shifting Business and Lifestyle for Pregnancy

28:20 Moving to Spain for a Better Life

31:38 Managing Stress and Fertility

34:47 Intuition and Instincts in Parenting

35:47 Overcoming Societal Expectations

41:28 Building a Supportive Relationship

46:04 Creating an Optimal Environment

48:58 Conclusion and Future Plans