Sometimes healing brings up two feelings at once. Love and sadness. Pride and pain. Gratitude for what you can give now,and grief for what you never received. In this episode, I share a moment with my daughter that stirred both.

Watching her feel safe filled me with gratitude, and also touched the sadness of not having that as a child.

We talk about why grief does not cancel gratitude and why feeling both is part of healing, not a problem.

⟡ TRY THIS REFLECTION

Place one hand on your chest and one on your belly. Take a slow breath and remind yourself you are allowed to feel both. Notice what shifts when you stop pushing any feeling away. You don’t have to choose between gratitude and grief.Both belong.

⟡ ABOUT THE HOST, NAOMI SPARKS

Naomi Sparks is a mom, wife, healing coach, and a cult survivor. She grew up in a tightly controlled religious cult in Northern California and spent years disconnected from her true self. She now helps others heal their nervous systemfrom trauma, rebuild trust in their bodies, and reconnect with who they are beneath survival mode.

→ Connect with Naomi on IG:⁠ @theunapologetictruthh⁠

⟡ LET’S KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING

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