After Donald Trump publicly berated Kaitlan Collins of CNN for pressing him about the Jeffrey Epstein files, he used a cheap power move familiar to women worldwide.

"Why aren't you smiling?"

Because apparently women exist to decorate the room — and keep powerful men comfortable.

It's also a great way to deflect questions you don't want to answer.

In this episode, we unpack the long history of telling women to "smile" — and why it's one of the most annoying things men can say next to....oh, about anything. We examine how policing women's expressions becomes a way to reassert dominance, derail accountability and minimize a woman's place in a professional seetting.

Because when a woman is told to smile, it's rarely about happiness.
It's about control.

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