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Emotional Healing for Christian Women with Marvel Adeyemi | Psychotherapist.

Emotional Healing for Christian Women with Marvel Adeyemi | Psychotherapist.

Di: Marvel C. Adeyemi
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 Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, guilt, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling Worthy, Beautiful, Confident, and Calm — and doing it with God by your side. That’s the healing we begin together. 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠marveladeyemi.com.au 📌Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ 📌 On my website, download my ⁠free resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose.Marvel C. Adeyemi Catechesi ed evangelismo Cristianesimo Spiritualità
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  • EP. 49| Why Fasting & Prayer Changed Everything For Me.

    EP. 49| Why Fasting & Prayer Changed Everything For Me.
    Jan 26 2026
    I’m going to be completely real with you—there was a version of my life where I felt like I was running a race on a treadmill. I was working hard, I was praying, and fasting felt like punishment. Everything changed when I stopped trying to 'hustle' my way into my future and started fasting my way into it. I’m pulling back the curtain on my personal journals to show you how fasting and prayer changed everything for me— and how it can do the same for you. I hope this episode blesses you. Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening/Watching. ⁠I’m Marvel Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women. ✅ Join my soulful restoration Christian women's retreat ⁠⁠ Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible. Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident. WHAT NEXT? ✅ Get ⁠free resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ Join my private WhatsApp group. Send me a request by email ✅ ⁠ email⁠ - contact@wholesomecounselling.com ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ Connect with me, online for Christian Counselling and coaching. I support high-achieving Christian women or couples in Ballarat, Melbourne Victoria- Australia, and globally who are ready to transform their relationships through inner child healing and faith-led wisdom. 📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. TRANSCRIPT I used to think I was the only one who felt this way... that fasting was a punishment. Back in 2013, I understood the theory of fasting. I knew the benefits. But a consistent routine? That wasn't me. When I tried to fast, I performed woefully. My head ached, I felt dizzy, and honestly, it felt like I was being punished. So, I stopped. But then, my Pastor announced a new fasting regimen for our church. My heart actually sank. My youngest baby was only 12 months old, and my body was still transitioning. But I was determined. I had heard about the physical benefits, but I was hungry for the spiritual ones. I jumped in. And poof! My life transformed. This became my introduction to this dedicated lifestyle. In this episode I’m sharing how fasting took me from a clumsy, tired mum to a travel journalist, top-tier student and today a psychotherapist, and the exact techniques I used to survive the process. POINT 1: CLARITY OF PURPOSE The first thing fasting gave me was divine direction. At the time, I thought I wanted to launch a radio program. I was thinking locally. But as I fasted, God’s imagination took over mine. Through the Holy Spirit, I felt a pull to go back to university for a Post graduate in Guidance and counselling then a Master's in Counselling. My first degree was in English Language, and I was happy with the opportunities it offered me including teaching, marketing and sales but God knew the work I am doing today required that degree. I always say I 'stumbled' into my career, but the truth is, I fasted and prayed into it. Fasting gives you eyes to see the path God has already paved for you. POINT 2: DOORS YOU DIDN’T EVEN KNOCK ON "Fasting opens your inner eyes and then opens physical doors. While I was finishing my university assignments, I got a random phone call. A family friend who founded a travel magazine had an invitation for an all-expenses-paid safari tour in another country. He couldn’t go, and he asked if I would represent the magazine as a destination reporter. I told him I couldn't afford it. He said, 'Everything is paid for. Just bring yourself.' And that trip led to another then another, so for years, I became a travel journalist, visiting countries I never dreamed of. The Holy Spirit knows what you will enjoy! When you fast and speak in tongues, the Spirit of God intercedes for you. As it says in Romans 8:26, 'the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans.' A fasted life releases blessings that are ...
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    7 min
  • EP. 48| How To Spot Spiritual Manipulation in Friendship and Dating

    EP. 48| How To Spot Spiritual Manipulation in Friendship and Dating
    Jan 19 2026
    Feeling pressured in relationship is a sign to take a step back! Remember the six-month rule—observe character over charisma. Beware of the dangers of familiar spirits, which can manifest in repeated patterns of unhealthy relationships. I hope this episode blesses you. Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening/Watching. ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women. ✅ Join my soulful restoration Christian women's retreat ⁠⁠ Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible. Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident. WHAT NEXT? ✅ Get ⁠free resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠ ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠ contact@wholesomecounselling.com Connect with me, online for Christian Counselling and Couple counselling. I support high-achieving Christians in Ballarat, Melbourne Victoria- Australia, and globally who are ready to transform their relationships through inner child healing and faith-led wisdom. 📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. key words #RedFlags #SelfCare #Discernment #Friendship #MentalHealth #Growth #Podcast #Relationships TRANSCRIPT In this episode, I want to gently but clearly talk to you about discernment, because when you are sincerely seeking to do God’s will for your life, you need to understand this: God sends people into your life. And the enemy also sends people into your life. Both can look convincing at first. Dating Is Not Harmless Dating isn’t neutral. Friendship isn’t always innocent. Connection isn’t automatically safe. When you’re longing for love — especially if you’ve experienced rejection, neglect, or emotional wounds — you are more vulnerable than you realise. That doesn’t make you weak. It makes you human. But vulnerability without discernment can be dangerous. Scripture tells us to test the spirits. Not every connection is divine. Not every open door is God. And not every person who sounds spiritual is safe. Some people have unknowingly befriended — and even dated — individuals practising witchcraft, manipulation, or spiritual control. Not because they were foolish… but because they were desperate. And desperation is a pull. Charisma Is Not Character Let me say this clearly, especially for my Gen Z sisters: Gifts are loud. Character is quiet. You can fall in love with charisma. You can be impressed by someone’s prophetic gifting. You can be drawn to someone who prays powerfully, speaks accurately, or seems spiritually “deep.” They might tell you exactly what you’re going through. They might speak into your season with precision. They might call out things no one else knows. Here’s the wisdom part: Gifting reveals ability. Character reveals safety. And character takes time to observe. The 6-Month Rule (this will save you) Here’s a secret I want you to write down. When you meet someone — whether as a friend or potential spouse — give the relationship at least six months. Not six months of intensity. Six months of observation. If they demonstrate prophetic attributes or spiritual insight: Acknowledge it inwardly Stay quiet outwardly Don’t announce it Don’t attach meaning too quickly Time reveals patterns. Pressure exposes motives. Consistency tells the truth. Most people who manipulate spiritually rely on urgency. God works through peace. Pressure Is a Red Flag Pressure can look subtle. It can sound like: constant, unasked-for texts feeling monitored or micromanaged guilt when you don’t respond quickly emotional intensity before trust is built That suffocated feeling? That’s not romance. That’s not God. Healthy connection allows space. Secure love respects rhythm. Divine alignment never needs force. If you feel pressure — detach ...
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    22 min
  • EP. 47| The Invisible Warfare For Your Marriage

    EP. 47| The Invisible Warfare For Your Marriage
    Jan 12 2026
    The devil hates families. He hates covenant. He hates stability, safety, and generational healing. Does it seem like every conversation leads to an explosion? Let’s discuss the escalation loop that can drain the joy out of your marriage and learn how to identify and combat the real enemy! TRANSCRIPT The Invisible Fight for Your Marriage Theme: Spiritual Warfare in Marriage Scripture Focus: Ephesians 6:12, 2 Corinthians 10:4 INTRODUCTION — The Wake-Up Call You’ve read every marriage book on the shelf. You’ve sat on the counsellor’s couch until you’re emotionally exhausted. You’ve softened your tone. You’ve stopped asking for too much. You’ve prayed, you’ve waited, you’ve shrunk yourself to keep the peace… And yet — the house still feels like it’s on fire. Let me ask you something gently, but honestly. What if you’re not fighting your husband at all? What if the exhaustion you feel isn’t relational failure — but spiritual resistance? What if you’re standing in a war room, trying to fight a spirit with a spreadsheet… Using communication tools for a battle that requires spiritual authority? Today, we’re talking about the invisible fight for your marriage. This episode is not about blaming your spouse. It’s about waking up discernment. It’s about calling intercessors back to their posts. Before we go any further — if this episode already feels like it’s reading your mail, pause for a second. Hit subscribe, leave a comment telling me where you’re listening/reading from, and share this with a sister who’s quietly fighting for her home. This message needs to reach the women who are tired of surface answers. BODY POINT 1 — The Three-Part Human & the Three-Part Marriage To understand why your marriage feels like a battlefield, we need to go back to foundation. " you have to understand who you are. As an African woman, this concept is second nature to me, and the Bible confirms it: Man is essentially a spirit, who has a soul, and lives in a body. Scripture is clear — you are a spirit, you have a soul, and you live in a body. And your marriage reflects that same three-part design. 1️⃣ The Physical Layer This is what most couples focus on: BillsChoresSexParenting logisticsWho did what, who didn’t This is Important — but not central. 2️⃣ The Soul Layer This is where therapy usually sits: EmotionsCommunication stylesAttachment patternsPersonality clashes Still important — but still not the root. 3️⃣ The Spiritual Layer This is the foundation of one flesh. This is where covenant lives. This is where unity is either protected or attacked. Now pay attention to what I’m about to say, in fact write this down: If you only work on behaviour and emotions, but ignore the spiritual layer, you leave the most important door wide open. You can regulate your tone. You can read your attachment style. You can learn conflict scripts. But if your marriage is under spiritual pressure — behavioural change alone won’t hold. You end up trying to fix a spiritual leak with emotional duct tape. And eventually… it fails. III. BODY POINT 2 — The Red Flags of Spiritual Warfare The devil hates families. He hates covenant. He hates stability, safety, and generational healing. And no — saying “I do” does not make you immune. If anything, marriage puts a target on your back. Lets move forward quickly, How do you know if you are under spiritual warfare? : here are four signs that what you’re facing is more than a personality clash: 🚩 1. The Escalation Loop Simple conversations escalates quickly or explode. For instance, You start talking about dishes… And suddenly you’re fighting about respect, worth, and past wounds. Afterwards You walk away exhausted, feeling guilt or ashamed, and emotionally bruised because of what you said or how you behaved — every time. 🚩 2. Another sign is The Counselling Wall When You’ve done therapy or couple counselling. and You’ve implemented strategies. But the atmosphere in your home doesn’t shift. instead YOUR Insight increases — but your intimacy doesn’t. 🚩sign no 3. Strategy Fatigue When You’ve changed your tone. for example You’ve stopped “nagging.” You’ve tried silence, softness, and self-improvement. Yet the home still feels heavy. 🚩sign no 4. The Blind Spot Everyone else can see a clear issue in your spouse — but he genuinely cannot. Or he Minimises it. Deflects or Spiritual numbness. That’s often not stubbornness — it’s a stronghold. Let me say this clearly: When common sense fails and counselling stalls, you are not dealing with immaturity. You are dealing with spiritual resistance. BODY POINT 3 — Let me introduce you to Your New Job Description: Intercessor It is time to stop discussing your marriage problems with every 'well-meaning' person. Unless that person is ready to go into the trenches of midnight prayer and fasting with you, they are just noise. Your ...
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    11 min
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