In this conversation, I sit down with Jaime Hawryluk to explore the transformative and often disorienting journey of motherhood, particularly the identity shifts that can follow postpartum. Together, we unpack the grief, loss, and self-discovery that so many mothers experience as they try to reconcile who they were before motherhood with who they are becoming.

Jaime shares candidly what it was like to crawl out of the trenches of early motherhood after years of darkness, and how she is only now beginning to feel her “pink” return. She challenges the idea of work-life balance, offering a more compassionate perspective—one that recognizes life, motherhood, and work as ever-evolving. We talk about how the pressure to “find balance” often fuels self-judgment and reinforces the false belief that mothers should have it all figured out.

Through both her lived experience and professional lens, Jaime opens up about the healing practices, mindset shifts, and hormonal insights that supported her reconnection with herself. This conversation is raw, honest, and deeply relatable for any mother navigating identity loss, grief, and the slow, courageous journey back to herself.

Key Takeaways

1. Feeling disoriented after becoming a mother is a common and valid experience
2. Identity can expand through motherhood instead of needing to be “found” again
3. Acknowledging grief around change can create space for healing and clarity
4. Personal growth often begins when we stop resisting who we are becoming

About the Guest:

Jaime Hawryluk is a registered palliative care nurse and certified functional hormone specialist. She’s an entrepreneur, host of the “Cut to the chase” podcast, wife, and mother of two. Her journey through motherhood has been shaped by profound transitions—having two babies back-to-back, navigating late postpartum depression and anxiety, and grieving the loss of her father just five months postpartum.

You can find her on Instagram @jaime_yourhormonegirl

About The Host:

Dr. Christelle Oliver-Dussault is a family physician with a clinical focus on aesthetic medicine, women’s health, and psycho-education. Her work is grounded in a holistic, whole-person approach that integrates medical science with a deep appreciation of the mind–body connection. Alongside her clinical practice, she is deeply committed to medical education and mentors the next generation of family physicians through her work with the Department of Family Medicine at the University of British Columbia.

She is the founder of the Get Your Pink Back Project, a community created to support women through life’s most profound transitions. This project was born from personal experience. After becoming a mother, Dr. Oliver-Dussault became aware of a quiet but profound shift in her sense of self, one she had long observed in her patients, yet only fully understood once she lived it herself. What had once been a clinical observation became a deeply personal insight, shaping the lens through which she now supports and guides other women.

You can connect with her on Instagram at @drchristellemd and @getyourpinkback_project

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