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He shares a fantasy. Does he want to try it, talk about it or keep it entirely in his imagination?

In this episode, I draw on my experience in the adult industry to explore fantasy, curiosity and real-life intentions. I share why I ask questions instead of assuming, how the same scenario can mean different things to different people and why enjoying a role during a session doesn’t tell you someone’s whole personality.

We’ll also discuss sharing an interest versus making a request, being honest about what you want and keeping room for both people’s boundaries.

Explore What He’s Thinking™ on Substack. For a private conversation through Pepper’s Perspectives, visit spicyspectrumpodcast.com.

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