What happens when you leave your home on a Tuesday night thinking you'll be back by morning — and wake up to find out it's gone?
In this episode of Disaster Diaries, Andy and Evan sit down with Carly, an Altadena resident who lived through the January 2025 LA fires. Carly walks us through the entire experience — from the eerily windy morning that didn't feel threatening, to the casual decision to pack one backpack and leave "just in case," to the moment she found out her home was gone through a video on her phone while standing in a bathrobe in her sister's bathroom in Palm Springs.
What makes Carly's story so powerful isn't just what happened — it's how she and her family navigated it. Two calm, deliberate parents. Three kids who took their cues from the adults around them. A decision to leave early not because they thought they'd lose everything, but simply because it didn't feel right to stay. And an instinct to protect their bubble — for themselves and for their children — until they were in a safe enough place to feel the full weight of what had happened.
Carly talks honestly about the gradations of concern that drive disaster decisions, the moment the bubble pops when you're surrounded by people who know something you don't yet, the unexpected grief of losing not just a house but hundred-year-old trees and the soul of a neighborhood, and the surprising resilience of children in the face of devastating news.
She also shares what she wishes people would stop saying to disaster survivors — and what actually helps.
This episode is a masterclass in emotional intelligence, family leadership, and the quiet power of preparation done right.
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