Infertility and pregnancy loss can bring grief, isolation, and questions that are difficult to voice.

In this episode of Desert Wanderers, host welcomes Jillian from Springs in the Desert, a Catholic ministry offering spiritual care, community, and resources to women and couples navigating infertility and loss. Jillian shares why infertility can affect every part of a couple's life from marriage and faith to friendships, family gatherings, and personal identity. She discusses the different ways men and women may grieve, the importance of making room for sorrow without losing sight of joy, and how couples can find support through healthcare providers, counseling, spiritual direction, prayer, and community.

The conversation also offers practical guidance for friends and family: instead of giving advice or assuming what someone needs, ask how you can support them. Jillian speaks about honoring a baby after miscarriage, navigating male-factor infertility and medical loss, and remembering that a couple's worth and fruitfulness are not defined by whether they have children.

Whether you're experiencing infertility or hoping to support someone who is, this thoughtful conversation offers compassion, perspective, and a reminder that no one should have to carry grief alone.

Chapters:
(00:00) Introducing The Podcast And Springs In The Desert Ministry
(01:00) How Springs Accompanies Couples Facing Infertility And Loss
(04:13) Broadening Awareness Of Infertility During Awareness Month
(05:23) Couples May Grieve And Process Infertility In Different Ways
(06:37) Recognizing Grief And Seeking Whole-Person Support
(09:47) Preparing For Loss Through Honest Conversations Before Marriage
(12:20) Finding Ethical Care And Building Supportive Habits Early
(15:58) Friends Should Ask Before Offering Treatment Suggestions
(17:02) Offer Compassion And Avoid Unsolicited Advice Or Pressure
(21:39) Infertility Affects Relationships Identity And Marital Connection
(27:30) Recognizing Men's Grief And Making Space For Honest Conversation
(31:03) Keeping Prayer Honest When Infertility Makes Faith Difficult
(34:46) Healing Is Lifelong And Fruitfulness Has Many Forms
(38:12) Cultural Shifts And Family Distance Can Silence Infertility
(42:28) Replace Loaded Questions With Gentle Invitations To Share
(48:07) Check In Respectfully And Follow Each Couple's Boundaries
(50:09) Male-Factor Infertility Can Challenge Identity And Marriage
(54:25) Coping With Medical Infertility And The Finality Of Menopause
(57:33) Remembering Miscarried Children Through Ritual And Community
(01:01:38) Affirm The Goodness Of Children While Respecting Grief
(01:04:33) Offer Hope To Couples And Thoughtful Support To Their Friends
(01:07:08) Closing Thanks And Information About The Podcast

Resources mentioned:
Springs in the Desert; Women at the Well; Early Pregnancy Loss Association.

In this episode of Desert Wanderers, host Natalie sits down with Dr. Aberle, a mother and physician with experience caring for patients from premature infants to the elderly. They discuss Idaho's Proposition 1 through the lens of medical ethics, informed consent, surgical training, and the care of vulnerable patients. Dr. Aberly explains why she believes physicians across specialties can contribute to the conversation, and shares her perspective on parental involvement, abortion-related care, and the challenges facing Idaho's healthcare system. The conversation also considers what medicine has learned—and sometimes had to relearn—about infant pain, prenatal testing, and the limits of medical predictions. Drawing on her clinical background and Catholic faith, Dr. Aberle reflects on human dignity, compassion, suffering, and the value of caring for people at every stage of life. Listen for a thoughtful, personal discussion of the medical and ethical questions surrounding Prop 1, and the importance of building a culture of care.

✍️ Episode References
Desert Wanderers podcast
https://saltandlightradio.com/podcasts
Salt and Light Radio
https://saltandlightradio.com/
Stop Prop 1
https://stopprop1.org/
Idaho Defense of Life Act
https://legislature.idaho.gov/statutesrules/idstat/Title18/T18CH6/SECT18-622/
Charlotte Lozier Institute
https://lozierinstitute.org/
New York Times Prenatal Testing Article
https://www.nytimes.com/2023/06/27/upshot/prenatal-testing-misleading-fda.html
Sirach 38 https://bible.usccb.org/bible/sirach/38
Fish and Babies https://www.fishandbabies.com/
Abortion Survivors Network
https://abortionsurvivors.org/
Idaho Medical Board
https://dopl.idaho.gov/medical/
Catholic Charities of Idaho
https://www.ccidaho.org/
Chapters:
(00:00) Welcome to Desert Wanderers
(01:00) Dr. Aberle's path to medicine and ENT surgery
(06:40) Physician expertise and the question of who can speak about abortion
(10:30) Informed consent and Proposition 1
(13:25) Surgical training, abortion providers, and patient safety
(19:00) Idaho's OB-GYN shortage and the changing landscape of maternity care
(24:30) Common reasons for abortion and compassion for women
(28:40) The Hippocratic oath and medicine's ethical responsibilities
(33:10) What medicine has learned about pain in newborns
(43:30) Human dignity, consciousness, and prenatal testing
(52:00) Caring for children with genetic conditions and complex needs
(59:30) End-of-life care, suffering, and compassion
(01:06:00) Proposition 1 and the broader culture of life
(01:09:30) Closing reflections and ways to support the work
Produced by Salt and Light Radio.

In this episode of the Desert Wanderers podcast, we welcome Father Griffin, author of Forming Families, Forming Saints. Father Griffin shares his inspiring vocation story, detailing his journey from a Christian upbringing to becoming a Catholic priest. We explore the importance of family life, human and spiritual formation, and how parents can foster a culture of faith within their homes. Join us as we discuss practical steps for nurturing vocations and the significance of building a community centered around God.

Resources:
Forming Families, Forming Saints: https://www.amazon.com/Forming-Families-Saints-Carter-Griffin/dp/1645854116

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(00:15) Father Griffin's Vocation Story

(10:00) The Role of Family in Faith Formation

(20:00) Importance of Human and Spiritual Formation

(30:00) Practical Steps for Parents

(40:00) Nurturing Vocations in Children

(50:00) Conclusion

In this enlightening episode of the Desert Wanderers podcast, we delve into the life and legacy of St. Francis in honor of the year dedicated to him. Join us as Teresa Zapeta shares her insights on the profound impact of St. Francis, exploring his journey from a wealthy youth to a revered saint known for his love of nature, humility, and radical detachment from material wealth. Discover how his teachings remain relevant today and learn practical ways to embody his virtues in our modern lives as we prepare for his feast day.

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(00:15) Who St. Francis Was

(00:45) Pivotal Moments in His Life

(01:30) The Year of St. Francis

(02:00) Virtues of St. Francis

(02:30) Celebrating His Feast Day

(03:00) Conclusion