Dan Ryan sat down with Alexa d'Argence, senior interior designer at Ken Fulk Inc., to explore what it really means to design spaces people fall in love with. Alexa pulls back the curtain on KFI's work at the Huntington Hotel in San Francisco and the Beverly Hills Hotel. sharing how a strong concept and cinematic vision guide every decision from the big picture down to the smallest detail. The conversation gets reflective too, touching on why slowing down is sometimes the only way forward, and what it means to truly love the work you do.

About the Guest:

Alexa d'Argence is a Senior Interior Designer at Ken Fulk Inc. in San Francisco. With a background rooted in hospitality and residential design, she has worked on projects ranging from The Flamingo Hotel in Santa Rosa to the Huntington Hotel on Nob Hill, recently featured in Architectural Digest, and is currently deep in the renovation of the Beverly Hills Hotel. A graduate of Cornell and a lifelong lover of hotels, she approaches every project as an act of care, craft, and storytelling.

Chapters:

00:42 Meet Alexa d’Argence

01:45 Sketching Under Pressure

04:02 What Hospitality Means

05:03 Hotels and Childhood Memories

05:59 From Marin to Hospitality Design

07:51 Storytelling and the Movie Mind

13:23 Designing for the Guest

17:22 History Beloved and Future Dreams

28:19 Sketching Together Works

29:08 Hidden Beauty Onsite

32:05 Details Beyond The Spread

33:15 Beloved Places And Memories

34:54 Renovations And Responsibility

36:10 Sustainability Sponsor Break

36:37 Tools Sketches And Renderings

39:40 Puzzling As Design Mindset

44:19 Mentorship Scent And Farewell

Quote of the Show:

"It's a calling, a vocation for me. So there's a lot of love that goes into it. This is a job where you are working long hours, and if you don't love it, you're gonna burn out." - Alexa d'Argence

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This week, Dan Ryan sits down with Alex Kuby, Associate Principal at Dyelot and a lifelong student of how built environments shape human experience. From his early days at HBA in Santa Monica to helping lead a studio through a full brand transformation, Alex has spent his career asking what it really means to make people feel seen, supported, and cared for inside a space. Together, Dan and Alex explore approachable hospitality, the power of integrated services, and what niching down actually looks like when you are doing it from the inside.

About the Guest:

On this episode, Dan Ryan sits down with Alex Kuby, Associate Principal at Dyelot, a hospitality interiors studio bolstered by branding, procurement, and architectural services. Alex has been part of the firm since its days as RDC, helping shape its evolution into a focused, values driven hospitality design practice. When he is not leading visioning workshops or authoring the Dylot blog, he is probably thinking about how a grocery store can double as a neighborhood heartbeat.

Chapters:

00:42 Show Intro and Sponsor

01:04 Meet Alex Kuby

01:31 Shared Roots and Catching Up

03:19 Defining Hospitality

03:58 Approachable Hospitality

05:25 RDC to Dyelot Story

09:34 WELL and Sustainable FF&E

20:59 Capital ROI and Visioning

32:23 Sustainable Sponsor Shoutout

32:41 Design Meets Procurement

35:38 Why Branding Comes First

39:04 Blogging and Brand Transition

41:49 Niching Down the Studio

43:22 Grocery as Community Hub

46:09 Public Spaces and Connection

50:12 Career Advice and Mentorship

53:28 Memory Lane and Farewell

Quote of the Show:

"Hospitality is the humanity in the built environment, that is the way in which we express care and facilitate all of those great high touch point, high emotional engagements that the best hospitality spaces are known for." - Alex Kuby

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• Guests Website: https://dyelot.com/
• Dan Ryan LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thedailydanryan/

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Dan Ryan talks with Thomas Paterson, founder and lighting designer at Lux Populi, about one of hospitality's most overlooked design disciplines… light. Thomas explains why lighting designers need a seat at the table from day one, not after the drawings are done, and shares his take on how light shapes a space's emotional experience. The conversation covers the gap between the 2% of projects that engage a true lighting specialist and the 30-50% that probably should, what it means to design from the inside out, his unconventional path from Australia to Mexico City, the sustainability case for old-school screw-in bulbs, and why asking the right question at the right moment is the smartest move a lighting designer can make.

About the Guest:

Thomas Paterson is the founder, director, and principal lighting designer at Lux Populi, a Mexico City based lighting design studio. He brings a first principles approach to every project, asking what light can do before how it should look. His portfolio spans luxury resorts, boutique hotels, restaurants, museums, and infrastructure, including 15 years with Sandals Resorts, the Four Seasons Los Cabos, and a landmark tunnel gateway in Sydney. Originally from Australia and formerly based in London, he landed in Mexico City by chance and built one of the industry's most distinctive lighting practices.

Chapters:

00:25 Meet Lighting Designer Thomas

03:09 Hospitality Through Light

06:43 Bring Lighting In Early

10:17 Who Owns The Brief

11:46 Do Projects Hire Lighting

17:23 Lighting As Editing Tool

25:43 Fixing Spaces After Opening

29:09 Why Mexico City

31:53 Mexico City Safety Shift

32:43 Designing the Cocoon

33:17 Contrast and Tone Basics

34:14 Fixing a Brand’s Lighting

35:47 Kelvin Myths Explained

37:38 Infrared and Homogenous LEDs

42:39 Culture and Buying Bulbs

47:37 Sustainability and PoE Lighting

54:53 Future of Lighting Design

Quote of the Show:

"Lighting design is an editing tool. Emphasize, de-emphasize, reveal, conceal." - Thomas Paterson

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