What does it take to turn a boy into a capable man?
Green Beret veteran, former Virginia legislator, Making the Argument host, and New York Times bestselling author Nick Freitas joins A.J. Rice on Dangerous Laughter for an in-depth conversation about masculinity, fatherhood, marriage, faith, family, discipline, and personal responsibility.
Freitas is the author of The Manbook: A Point-by-Point Guide to Sucking It Up and Getting the Job Done.
He argues that American culture has become increasingly uncomfortable asking difficult things of young men, even though overcoming challenges is one of the ways boys develop confidence, competence, resilience, and character.
Nick explains why boys benefit from rites of passage, physical challenges, responsibility, strong male role models, and fathers who live the values they hope their children will adopt.
Topics include:
- America’s masculinity crisis
• Raising boys to become capable men
• Rites of passage
• Physical challenges
• Personal responsibility
• Discipline and resilience
• Fatherhood
• Father-son relationships
• Father-daughter relationships
• Marriage and loyalty
• Biblical masculinity
• Faith and family
• Traditional family values
• Men and modern politics
• The political divide between men and women
• Political pandering
• Nick Freitas and the Green Berets
• Making the Argument
• The Manbook
• Donald Trump and the Trump family
• Harry Sisson
• Don Lemon
• Stephen Miller
• Humor, marriage, bourbon, and family life
Nick also explains how fathers can establish lifelong trust with their daughters and why he believes strong marriages require an extraordinary level of loyalty between husband and wife.
The conversation examines the difference between strength and aggression, leadership and domination, confidence and arrogance.
The Bigger Question
What experiences should every boy have before he can truly consider himself a man?
Freitas argues that capable men are not produced simply by getting older.
They are formed through responsibility, adversity, discipline, service, faith, family, and the experience of discovering that they can accomplish difficult things.
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NICK FREITAS
The Manbook: A Point-by-Point Guide to Sucking It Up and Getting the Job Done
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