The loss of a family member often necessitates surviving members to take on new roles and responsibilities. This transition can be both challenging and transformative. One poignant example is the experience of Dr. Phyllis Connelly, who faced the unexpected passing of Kevin after close to 40 years of marriage.

Two years following her loss, Dr. Connelly shares coping mechanisms which included creating an informal 'support group' named “Weeping Widows.” This small cluster of women was formed to navigate the grieving process more effectively. Phyllis found that bonding with others going through a similar experience provided a sense of solidarity and understanding that was crucial in helping her to move forward.

We also discuss the practical stresses that accompany such a significant transition. Managing finances, covering bills, and maintaining the household can exacerbate the emotional burden of grief. Phyllis's group offered not only emotional support but also practical advice and assistance, helping members adapt to their new roles and responsibilities.

By sharing their grief and building new lives, her sociable collection of “Weeping Widows” provided an opportunity for members to support each other and adapt in ways that honor both individual and collective needs. Including refining family traditions, roles, and friendships.