"Sometimes we need to process our feelings before we can act on a solution." — Rodney

"Holding the space is saying, 'I am here. Take your time.'" — Li Yen

Every marriage will go through seasons of stress, loss, disappointment or uncertainty.

In this heartfelt conversation, Rodney and Li Yen Chin reflect on how spouses can support one another through difficult times without feeling the need to fix everything. They share how fear of judgement, criticism or appearing weak can make it difficult to open up about our struggles. Often, the most meaningful support comes not from having the right answers, but from being present, listening well, and giving one another space to process emotions.

Drawing from their own experiences, they remind us that everyone copes differently. By respecting those differences and offering patience, encouragement and understanding, couples can continue to walk alongside one another through life's challenges.

Couple Reflection: What helps you feel most supported when you're going through a tough time?

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Is friendship in your marriage taking a back seat?

Between deadlines, family commitments and the demands of daily life, it can be easy to lose sight of the small ways we show love. Taking a moment to count the ways your spouse cares for you may help you rediscover simple ways to love them in return.

In this episode, June speaks with Rodney and Li Yen Chin, who are celebrating 25 years of marriage, about keeping friendship, fun and connection alive through every season of married life. Li Yen shares why expressing love in ways that matter most to your spouse is essential, while Rodney reflects on learning to speak kindly, listen patiently and give his wife his full attention, just as he did during courtship.

From revisiting cherished memories to the simple reminder to “treat me like your girlfriend”, discover practical ways to nurture love, strengthen friendship, and help your marriage grow deeper, closer and stronger.

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Do you sometimes feel like you and your spouse are not on the same team? How can couples navigate differences without constantly clashing, and can differing personalities and parenting styles actually strengthen a marriage?

In this episode, Chun Huan and Morica return to share their journey of sustaining a strong marriage while raising five children. They reflect on how parenting stretched them individually and as a couple, teaching them adaptability, patience and the importance of recognising that every child is unique. They also share how disagreements and frustrations tested their relationship, yet helped them learn to give each other space, stay connected and embrace their differences as complementary strengths.

Through marriage courses, intentional couple time and better communication, they discovered practical ways to nurture their relationship and grow together.

Couple Reflection: What is our shared goal as a couple, and are our daily choices helping us move closer to it?

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For marriage resources, visit www.family.org.sg/resources to read more.

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