• 17. Control Is Not Working: The Mindset Shift Preteen Moms Need
    Jan 26 2026

    Do you feel like the preteen years have turned your emotions into a daily rollercoaster? Are you tired of yelling, reacting, and then feeling guilty afterward? Do you wonder why staying calm feels so hard — even when you love your kids so much?

    In today’s episode, we’re talking about the one thing that changes everything in motherhood — your mindset.

    If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, emotionally reactive, or unsure how to stay calm during the preteen years, this episode is for you. I’m sharing the #1 mindset shift that helped me move from control to connection, from guilt to growth, and from reacting to responding with peace.

    You’ll learn how emotional regulation, faith-led thinking, and intentional leadership can transform not only your parenting — but your confidence, your calm, and your connection with your preteen.

    If today’s conversation brought clarity, follow Confidence in Motherhood on Apple Podcasts so these calm, connection-building habits stay part of your week, Confidence in Motherhood!

    New episodes are released weekly.

    🔗 Explore the 5 Simple Daily Habits to End Power Struggles With Your Preteen at confidenceinmotherhood.com.

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    6 min
  • 16. Preteen Pulling Away? How to Rebuild Trust and Connection
    Jan 19 2026

    Feeling like your preteen is pulling away and you don’t know how to reach them anymore? Tired of the emotional rollercoaster where one moment you’re calm and the next you’re reacting with guilt or frustration? Wondering why parenting preteens feels so hard, even though you love your kids deeply?

    In this episode, I’m sharing the #1 mindset shift that transformed the way I parent my preteen and helped me stay calm, confident, and connected, even on hard days. We’ll talk about why control creates resistance, how guilt keeps moms stuck, and how emotional regulation becomes the foundation for trust and connection.

    This episode is for faith-led moms who are tired of reacting and ready to lead with peace, guidance, and intentional habits that rebuild trust during the preteen years.

    This week, notice one moment when you’d normally react and choose to pause and respond instead. Ask yourself, “What would a peaceful, confident mom do right now?” Then come share your experience inside the Connect with your preteen for Moms Facebook group. We celebrate progress, not perfection.

    If today’s conversation brought clarity, follow Confidence in Motherhood on Apple Podcasts so these calm, connection-building habits stay part of your week, Confidence in Motherhood!

    ✨ When power struggles begin draining your energy, 5 Simple Daily Habits offer a calmer way forward — you’ll find them at confidenceinmotherhood.com.

    ✨ And for ongoing support, join other moms inside Connect With Your Preteen For Moms on Facebook

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    5 min
  • 15. Why Preteen Independence Fails Without Connection Habits
    Jan 12 2026

    Do you feel anxious when your preteen asks for more independence?Are you torn between wanting to trust your child and fearing everything will fall apart if you let go? Do you wonder if your need to control is actually creating more distance instead of connection?

    In today’s episode, we’re talking about one of the most common — and misunderstood — parenting struggles: balancing guidance and independence with your preteen.

    If you’ve ever felt guilty for controlling too much, afraid of letting go, or unsure how to lead without losing connection, this episode is for you. You’ll learn why control often backfires, how faith-led boundaries create safety, and the simple daily habits that help your preteen grow responsibly without damaging trust.

    This episode will help you move from pressure and fear to calm leadership, stronger connection, and confident parenting — one small habit at a time.

    If today’s conversation brought clarity, follow Confidence in Motherhood on Apple Podcasts so these calm, connection-building habits stay part of your week, Confidence in Motherhood!

    ✨ When power struggles begin draining your energy, 5 Simple Daily Habits offer a calmer way forward — you’ll find them at confidenceinmotherhood.com.

    ✨ And for ongoing support, join other moms inside Connect With Your Preteen For Moms on Facebook

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    8 min
  • 14. Stop Comparing Yourself to Other Moms
    Jan 5 2026

    Do you ever feel like other moms have it all together while you’re falling behind? Have you questioned your parenting or leadership because of comparison, especially while raising a preteen?

    In today’s episode of Confidence in Motherhood, we talk about why comparison is stealing your peace and confidence—and three simple, faith-led ways to stop it so you can lead your family with calm and clarity.

    You’ll learn how to anchor your identity in Christ instead of other moms’ lives, how to recognize and limit comparison triggers like social media, and how focusing on small daily wins rebuilds confidence and emotional leadership at home.

    Comparison leads to pressure and self-doubt, but faith-led awareness restores peace. Calm, intentional presence—not control—is what your children need most.

    If this episode resonates, download my free guide From Chaos to Calm – Your Emotional Reset for Overwhelmed Moms. You’re also invited to join my free Facebook community, Connect with Your Preteen for Moms, for daily support and simple routines. Links are in the show notes.

    Thank you for listening to Confidence in Motherhood. Take one small habit from today and practice it this week. Keep leading with faith and calm, mama—I’ll see you next time.

    If today’s conversation brought clarity, follow Confidence in Motherhood on Apple Podcasts so these calm, connection-building habits stay part of your week, Confidence in Motherhood!

    ✨ When power struggles begin draining your energy, 5 Simple Daily Habits offer a calmer way forward — you’ll find them at confidenceinmotherhood.com.

    ✨ And for ongoing support, join other moms inside Connect With Your Preteen For Moms on Facebook

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    8 min
  • 13. Communication Mistakes That Push Your Preteen Away
    Dec 29 2025

    Are you tired of repeating yourself over and over again? Does your preteen act like they suddenly “can’t hear you”? Do simple instructions turn into arguments, frustration, or shut down moments?

    In this episode, I’m sharing the most common communication mistakes moms make—the ones that unintentionally push preteens away—and the simple daily habits that get your child to actually listen the first time so you can create a calmer, more connected home.

    You'll learn why your preteen tunes you out, how your tone and timing affect communication, and the 3-step framework that builds respect, teamwork, and actual listening without yelling or repeating yourself.

    Remember: 3-Step Preteen Communication Framework: “Connection Before Correction” Method; Use a 10-Second Cue: The less you say, the more they hear; Validate First, Guide Second

    You’ll learn the root causes behind mom guilt, emotional burnout, and self-doubt—plus the steps to finally walk in confidence, peace, and purpose inside your home.

    If today’s conversation brought clarity, follow Confidence in Motherhood on Apple Podcasts so these calm, connection-building habits stay part of your week, Confidence in Motherhood!

    ✨ When power struggles begin draining your energy, 5 Simple Daily Habits offer a calmer way forward — you’ll find them at confidenceinmotherhood.com.

    ✨ And for ongoing support, join other moms inside Connect With Your Preteen For Moms on Facebook

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    7 min
  • 12. From Overwhelmed to Organized: 4 Mom Habits That Work
    Dec 22 2025

    Feeling like your day runs you instead of the other way around? Struggling to keep up with chores, school schedules, and family responsibilities? Wondering how to get your kids to help without constant nagging?

    In this episode, I’m sharing 4 practical habits that helped me go from overwhelmed to organized as a mom — without complicated planners or long routines. You’ll learn how to regain control, reduce stress, strengthen family teamwork, and create routines that actually work. These habits are simple, actionable, and designed to bring calm to your home while building connection and responsibility in your kids.

    If today’s conversation brought clarity, follow Confidence in Motherhood on Apple Podcasts so these calm, connection-building habits stay part of your week, Confidence in Motherhood!

    ✨ When power struggles begin draining your energy, 5 Simple Daily Habits offer a calmer way forward — you’ll find them at confidenceinmotherhood.com.

    ✨ And for ongoing support, join other moms inside Connect With Your Preteen For Moms on Facebook

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    7 min
  • 11. Why Teens Act Out & 3 Ways Moms Can Reconnect
    Dec 15 2025

    Are you tired of your teen slamming doors, storming off, or arguing over small things? Do you wonder why their frustration seems to hit you out of nowhere? Want to reduce conflict and foster real connection with your preteen?

    In this episode, I’m sharing why teens act out — and more importantly, what you can do about it. Acting out isn’t defiance; it’s often a signal of unmet needs, big emotions, and the natural way their developing brain processes the world.

    I’m walking you through 3 simple, practical habits you can implement today to:

    • Reduce conflict at home
    • Strengthen trust with your teen
    • Foster calm, connection, and effective communication

    By the end of this episode, you’ll understand the “why” behind your teen’s behavior and have actionable steps to respond with intention — not reaction.

    In this episode, I’m breaking down the 3 habits that silently destroy your confidence as a mom—and how to break them with simple, faith-filled daily practices. If you feel overwhelmed, emotionally drained, or like you're “failing” your kids, this episode will help you understand why you feel this way… and exactly how to rebuild your confidence with clarity, truth, and God-inspired habits.

    You’ll learn the root causes behind mom guilt, emotional burnout, and self-doubt—plus the steps to finally walk in confidence, peace, and purpose inside your home.

    If today’s conversation brought clarity, follow Confidence in Motherhood on Apple Podcasts so these calm, connection-building habits stay part of your week, Confidence in Motherhood!

    ✨ When power struggles begin draining your energy, 5 Simple Daily Habits offer a calmer way forward — you’ll find them at confidenceinmotherhood.com.

    ✨ And for ongoing support, join other moms inside Connect With Your Preteen For Moms on Facebook

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    7 min
  • 10. Is Screen Time Replacing Connection? 3 Habits Every Mom Needs
    Dec 8 2025

    Is screen time taking over your home? Do you feel like you’re losing connection with your preteen one notification at a time?

    In today’s episode, we’re uncovering 3 simple daily habits that help you reclaim connection, rebuild communication, and strengthen emotional regulation with your preteen — without yelling, complicated routines, or punishment.

    Learn how small, intentional habits can help your preteen:

    • Be more present and engaged at home
    • Open up emotionally and share their day
    • Strengthen trust and confidence with you

    If you’re ready to replace scrolling with meaningful conversation, laughter, and connection, this episode is your step-by-step guide to winning back family time.

    I pray it blesses you and your home. 💛

    If today’s conversation brought clarity, follow Confidence in Motherhood on Apple Podcasts so these calm, connection-building habits stay part of your week, Confidence in Motherhood!

    ✨ When power struggles begin draining your energy, 5 Simple Daily Habits offer a calmer way forward — you’ll find them at confidenceinmotherhood.com.

    ✨ And for ongoing support, join other moms inside Connect With Your Preteen For Moms on Facebook

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    7 min