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  • Nobody Was Ever Doing Better Than They Thought (Ep 26)
    Oct 14 2026

    Bobby sits down with Mark Whitmire, a CFO with more than 35 years in finance and accounting, to close out the Know Your Numbers series. Part one was the mindset. Part two was the math. This is the practitioner.

    Mark's father was a CPA and president of the Georgia Society of CPAs, and Mark grew up watching him drop tax returns at the post office at midnight. He has the accounting gene and deliberately did not become an accountant. What he has instead is 35 years of being the person who finds the financial problem in somebody else's business.

    His verdict, after decades of counselling owners: there has never been an instance where somebody was doing better than they thought. Not once.

    The conversation covers why a builder reading a tax return may be looking at a business eighteen months old, the spec house that did not sell and why nothing in an income statement will ever reveal what it cost, the warranty money that leaves after the closing, and why you should raise three times what you think you need and raise it while you still do not need it.

    Then it turns, as these conversations do, from money to people. Hiring to your weakness, the way Charles Schwab and Richard Branson both did. Why effective partners tend not to be friends. Why most business plans are simply "more," and what a finish line should look like instead.

    "Engineers will build something nobody wants. Salespeople will sell something they can't produce."

    "My to-do list tends to be one item."

    Chapters:

    0:00 The house you didn't sell

    1:13 Why owners struggle with the numbers

    3:29 Mark's father, and the adding machine

    7:19 Advice for a new owner: triple it

    9:57 Raise money before you need it

    11:28 Your tax return is 18 months old

    13:13 Regular reporting, and the discipline it takes

    16:45 Warranty, and the cash that leaves after closing

    17:47 Nobody was ever doing better than they thought

    19:02 Hire to your weakness

    21:00 Most business plans are simply more

    23:34 Don't hire your best buddy

    29:09 Go think

    31:39 Your to-do list is one item

    38:16 Homes where families create memories

    41:02 Write your eulogy

    42:01 Close

    Learn more: ChoiceConsultingMan.com/Podcast

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    A video version of this episode is on YouTube. Search Choices Create Change.

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    44 min
  • Two Identical Houses, $70,000 Apart (Ep 25)
    Oct 7 2026

    Last week was why to measure. This week is how to read what you are measuring.

    Bobby opens with two houses: same plan, same community, sold for the same price. On paper, at the moment they sold, they were the same job. One closed at 31% gross margin and the other at 17%. On a $500,000 house that is $70,000, and it was not created at the closing table. It was created in a hundred small decisions across six months, and not one of them felt like a $70,000 decision at the time.

    From there it is a profit and loss statement in plain English, section by section, with the one test that tells you where a cost belongs: would this cost exist if you had not built that job?

    Then the part that is quietly costing people money right now. Markup and margin are not the same number. Add 25% to a $100,000 cost and you sell at $125,000, which is a 20% margin, not 25%. To actually earn 30% you have to mark up almost 43%. A leader who confuses the two is not making an occasional error, they are underpricing every job by the same amount forever, and there is no bad month that makes them go look.

    Also in this episode: the six places margin leaks and why not one of them is a market condition, why growing companies are the ones that run out of cash, and break-even, which is your annual overhead divided by your gross margin percentage. Drop five points of margin and a company with $1,200,000 of overhead has to build an extra $800,000 of work to end up exactly where it was.

    "A number without a target is trivia. A number with a target is a decision waiting to be made."

    This is part two of three. Next week a longtime CFO joins the show.

    Chapters:

    0:00 Two houses, identical on paper

    0:33 Welcome

    1:32 You were never taught this

    2:26 Reading a profit and loss statement

    5:45 The targets: 30, 18 and 12

    6:54 Gross margin, where the money is won and lost

    8:16 Two houses that look identical

    9:25 The six places margin leaks

    11:50 Not one of them is the market

    12:15 Markup versus margin

    13:52 Now do it the right way

    15:07 To get 30 you have to mark up 43

    16:03 Budget versus actual

    17:25 How forecasting actually works

    18:15 The monthly review: three columns

    18:41 Variance analysis: get to why

    20:09 Cash flow, the one that ends companies

    20:40 Why growing companies are the ones at risk

    21:38 Draws, inventory, receivables, payables

    23:28 Break-even, and what a slow month costs

    24:40 What five points of margin does to break-even

    26:03 Leading versus lagging indicators

    28:07 Building your weekly dashboard

    29:39 The four questions

    32:50 This week's challenge

    34:33 Call your CPA and ask

    35:49 Close

    Learn more: ChoiceConsultingMan.com/Podcast

    Bobby's books, Choices and Clarity: ChoiceConsultingMan.com/books

    A video version of this episode is on YouTube. Search Choices Create Change.

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    37 min
  • He Had 24 Houses Going and Was Losing Money (Ep 24)
    Sep 30 2026

    Most owners can tell you their revenue instantly and have no idea what they kept. This episode is about the eight numbers that tell you the truth about your business, and why smart, hardworking leaders end up flying blind anyway.

    Bobby opens with a builder who had 24 houses under construction, the most work he had ever had going at one time, and who was putting personal money into the business to make payroll. They costed out his last five closed houses. Two made money, one broke even, two lost real money. He was not having his best year, he was having his busiest year.

    From there it is the airplane test. A pilot watches altitude, airspeed, fuel against distance, oil pressure, engine temperature, weather, wind, cabin pressure and navigation, and makes corrections so small that nobody in seat 14C ever feels one. Then the question: what is actually on your dashboard, and what did you look at with your own eyes in the last seven days?

    Bobby walks through eight gauges, one at a time, and what each one warns you about before anybody else notices: cash, gross margin, sales pipeline, backlog, cycle time, warranty, employee turnover and customer satisfaction.

    The part most business content skips is the second half. If measuring is this obviously valuable, why do so many good leaders not do it? Fear, embarrassment, never having been taught, being too busy, a CPA who was never asked to teach, a report with forty lines on it, and nobody owning the number.

    "Volume without margin is not growth. It's just a faster way to find out you have a problem."

    "Companies do not go broke because they lose money. They go broke because they run out of cash."

    Chapters:

    0:00 Two of the last five lost money

    0:35 Welcome

    1:05 Forty years, and one question

    2:17 Why smart people make bad business decisions

    2:45 A feeling wearing a business suit

    3:02 Activity is not progress

    3:44 Busy and profitable are not the same thing

    4:04 The builder with 24 houses

    4:51 Putting personal money in to make payroll

    5:14 Costing out the last five houses

    5:36 His busiest year, not his best year

    6:07 Volume without margin is not growth

    6:24 He had no instruments

    6:44 Feelings versus facts

    7:31 Your instinct is a hypothesis

    7:53 Restaurants, coaches and doctors all measure

    8:52 So do Amazon and Chick-fil-A

    9:27 Awareness, decisions, results

    10:06 The airplane dashboard

    10:19 The captain who flies by feel

    11:01 A feeling is not knowing

    11:28 What a pilot actually watches

    13:18 Small corrections, not heroics

    14:09 You are the pilot

    14:32 What is on your dashboard this week

    15:27 That discomfort is information

    15:54 Pilots crash because they ignore it

    16:28 The reports nobody opens

    17:29 Let us build the dashboard

    17:52 Gauge 1: Cash

    18:27 Growth eats cash

    19:09 Gauge 2: Gross margin

    20:09 Gauge 3: Sales pipeline

    21:11 Gauge 4: Backlog

    22:20 Gauge 5: Cycle time

    23:12 Gauge 6: Warranty

    23:58 Gauge 7: Employee turnover

    24:55 Gauge 8: Customer satisfaction

    26:02 Why leaders avoid their numbers

    26:42 Fear

    27:04 Embarrassment, and nobody ever taught you this

    27:55 Too busy, and a CPA who was never asked to teach

    28:41 Forty lines on a report, and nobody owns it

    29:28 What you avoid controls you

    29:58 This week's leadership challenge

    30:29 Pick five numbers

    31:14 Look at them every Monday

    32:07 Say them out loud to your team

    32:30 Back to the builder with 24 houses

    32:57 Fewer houses, more money

    33:22 What is coming next week

    34:37 Close

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    36 min
  • Stop Being the Hero in Your Own Company (Ep 23)
    Sep 23 2026

    Most owners think their job is to be the one who fixes things. Mitchell Kasselman learned that every time he jumped in to save the day, he was taking the chance to learn away from somebody on his team.

    Bobby is joined by Mitchell Kasselman, co-founder and CEO of Ressio Software, which builds construction management software for custom home builders and remodelers. They have known each other since 2022, and Bobby was one of the people Mitchell leaned on when Ressio was starting out.

    Mitchell has gone from two founders to a growing team in four years, and the conversation is about what that took. Moving from what he calls heroics to systems. Hiring for culture so seriously that a ten out of ten candidate still fails if they do not fit. Letting people go sooner, and finding out that the person and the team were both relieved. Setting company goals and deliberately leaving his own name off them.

    There is also a practical stretch on AI, from somebody building it for builders: why the owners who get value from it are the ones who check its work, and why that is exactly how trust gets built with people too.

    "What I'm actually doing is preventing an opportunity for a team member to actually learn how to do that themselves."

    "Even if we had the ten out of ten best technical candidate, we will still fail someone at the cultural stage if they don't exceed in our values."

    Chapters:

    0:00 Stop being the hero

    0:29 Welcome

    0:55 Meet Mitchell Kasselman

    2:23 How he found the contractor

    3:30 Why builders' software feels twenty years old

    4:13 Building Ressio

    5:22 A hundred decisions a day

    6:08 Year two: talent and culture

    6:38 From heroics to systems

    8:11 Your job is the environment

    9:31 Building a company is like a marriage

    10:30 What AI is actually good for

    12:01 From a customer call to working code in days

    13:15 AI built for builders

    14:51 Getting past "I don't trust it"

    17:04 Decide if this is really for you

    17:52 Bias for action

    18:37 Getting back off the mat

    19:24 Do not go it alone

    20:04 Keep reinvesting in your team

    21:02 Rock stars and superstars

    22:42 People are the competitive advantage

    24:14 The castaways who thrived

    25:02 How they hire for culture

    26:53 Hire fast, fire fast

    29:02 Two out of three salespeople

    30:16 You already have values, write them down

    31:42 Let your values evolve

    33:13 From doing the work to managing managers

    34:01 Four goals, and his name is not on them

    34:42 Teach a man to fish

    36:21 Stop pointing at the individual

    37:25 Seek first to understand

    38:18 Curiosity over prescribing

    39:03 Ask more than you tell

    39:58 What not to do

    40:38 Take advice, but think for yourself

    41:38 Hallway decisions that become policy

    42:37 You cannot be everything to everyone

    43:15 Six dimensions, twenty one points

    45:11 What to take away

    47:02 Close

    Learn more at ChoiceConsultingMan.com/Podcast

    Bobby's books, Choices and Clarity, are at ChoiceConsultingMan.com/books

    A video version of this episode is on YouTube. Search Choices Create Change.

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    48 min
  • You Don't Need a New Website (Ep 22)
    Sep 16 2026

    Most business owners think they need a new website. Mickey Mellen has been building them for seventeen years, and a lot of his job is talking people out of it.

    Bobby is joined by Mickey Mellen, co-founder of GreenMellen in Marietta, Georgia, for a practical conversation about marketing when you run a company and nobody on your team owns marketing. Mickey's argument is that almost everybody overthinks it. He gives five things to focus on, website, email, local, data and social, and says a little bit in each one beats a lot in one and nothing in the other four.

    Along the way: why your website is now the last place a customer goes rather than the first, what your homepage should say instead of how many years you have been in business, and what he found when he ran fifteen thousand WordPress sites through a scanner he built.

    The back half is about AI, from somebody who uses it daily and is not entirely happy about it. What it is doing to search, to attribution, to pricing, and to the number of people who will ever see anything you make.

    And then the part Bobby keeps coming back to, which is numbers. Mickey on running his first five years off the bank balance, and the agency owner whose accountant called three days before Christmas to say there was not enough money for payroll.

    "Google is the reward for doing all your other marketing right, in all the other places."

    "If you are at all consistent with your stuff, you are the top five percent of businesses right there. The bar is so low."

    Chapters:

    0:00 Where people actually decide

    0:37 Welcome

    1:05 Meet Mickey Mellen and GreenMellen

    2:47 Do not overthink it

    3:28 The five things: website, email, local, data, social

    5:31 "I need a new website." "No, you don't."

    5:53 Lead with their problem, not your history

    6:23 Your website is the last place they go

    7:37 Perfect is the enemy of good

    8:05 Trying to do too much

    11:29 Why you should own your website

    12:17 Fifteen thousand sites, four thousand broken

    13:28 What is your marketing budget

    14:46 Consistency, and the content calendar

    16:50 What AI is doing to Google

    17:28 Why a link costs you most of your reach

    17:57 The CPA he hired ten years later

    19:02 Lift versus attribution

    19:55 Building your own tools with AI

    21:30 What worries him about AI

    22:08 A thousand pieces of content a day

    23:28 I miss the handcrafted days

    23:59 Confidentiality, risk and hallucinations

    25:44 The Braves score the AI made up

    26:44 Hire for fit over talent

    27:13 What AI does to what you can charge

    28:26 Cookies, a swing set, and fifty AI videos

    29:35 Get your books in order

    30:05 Forecasting instead of checking the bank

    31:25 Three days before Christmas

    32:32 Find somebody gifted differently than you

    33:41 What makes a business partnership work

    35:13 Trust

    36:11 There is no such thing as a done website

    37:09 Consistency puts you in the top five percent

    37:47 The king of shiny objects

    38:54 Kobe at five in the morning

    39:47 The fundamentals of a top shelf organization

    40:53 Look at your site through your customer's eyes

    42:47 How AI search actually works

    43:47 Close

    Learn more at ChoiceConsultingMan.com/Podcast

    Bobby's books, Choices and Clarity, are at ChoiceConsultingMan.com/books

    A video version of this episode is on YouTube. Search Choices Create Change.

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    45 min
  • Stop Looking for Better Employees, Fix Your Hiring System (Ep 21)
    Sep 9 2026

    Everybody asks where to find good people. Bobby thinks that is the wrong question. The right one is less comfortable: why would a great person want to come and work for you?

    This episode came from a listener who asked how to find people to hire, and the answer turned into forty years of hiring compressed into a system. It covers the part almost everybody skips, which is everything that happens before you post the job. Whether you actually need a person or need a process. The numbers worth looking at before you add payroll. Defining a seat properly instead of writing a list of activities and calling it a job description.

    Then the seven places great people actually come from, and only one of them is a job posting. Your own employees. Your vendors and trade partners. Competitors. Industry associations. LinkedIn. Colleges, trade schools and the military. And your customers.

    The last third is the part most hiring advice leaves out: keeping people once you have them.

    "Technical skills can usually be taught. Character usually cannot."

    "If good people keep leaving you, the market is not the problem. Look closer to home. That is not an accusation, it is the best news in this episode, because the market is not something you control but your environment is."

    Chapters:

    0:00 Why would a great person want to work for you

    0:31 Welcome

    3:18 The wrong question

    7:17 Before you hire anyone, ask this

    7:57 Know your numbers before you add people

    10:28 When it is genuinely time

    12:31 Define the position before you hire

    18:16 Where to actually find great people

    24:43 Never interview without a process

    32:18 How do you know they are the right person

    35:31 Keeping great people

    42:25 This week's challenge

    44:30 Close

    Learn more at ChoiceConsultingMan.com/Podcast

    Bobby's books, Choices and Clarity, are at ChoiceConsultingMan.com/books

    A video version of this episode is on YouTube. Search Choices Create Change.

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    45 min
  • Being a Great Contractor Won't Make You a Great Owner (Ep 20)
    Sep 2 2026

    Charlie Genin has been building in Lafayette, Louisiana for twelve years, and the hardest lesson had nothing to do with construction: being a good contractor is not the same thing as being a good business owner. He and Bobby get into the hats nobody warns you about when you start a company.

    Charlie founded The Gen Group Construction in 2014 with his father in law, and today runs residential and commercial, spec and custom. This conversation is the honest version of the first twelve years: the commitment nobody mentions when they tell you to go work for yourself, the day you accept you cannot be the best contractor and the best owner and the best dad all in the same afternoon, and the unglamorous systems that made the difference.

    Along the way: why you should start writing processes while you are still an army of one instead of waiting until you have a team of ten, why the first thing you hand off should be whatever you like doing least, how to keep your standard without micromanaging the person you just handed it to, why a rainy day fund is a construction issue and not a personal finance one, and the change order habit that prevents most disputes before they start.

    "The balance is really hard. To be the best contractor and the best business owner and the best employer and the best dad and the best husband. And the answer is you cannot do all of it at the same time."

    Chapters:

    0:00 Cold open

    0:28 Welcome

    0:59 Meet Charlie Genin

    1:50 Founding The Gen Group in 2014

    3:57 A good contractor is not a good business owner

    4:50 The commitment nobody warns you about

    6:31 You cannot be all of it at the same time

    7:11 Siloing the parts of your life

    9:59 Let the calendar be the driver

    11:05 Competing without tearing anyone down

    14:01 What you say about a competitor

    15:42 Working with integrity

    16:32 Surround yourself with better people

    17:50 Goals you can actually reach

    21:07 Sharing the goals with your team

    22:40 Celebrating wins, yours and theirs

    25:09 Advice for a new owner: the mindset

    26:01 Know your numbers

    26:54 Start processes as an army of one

    27:26 Do not get over leveraged

    29:11 All the hats you did not know about

    30:12 Delegate what you like doing least

    31:26 Consistency without micromanaging

    34:25 Checklists are built from mistakes

    37:17 Find a mentor, join your HBA

    41:10 Buy time instead of paying for mistakes

    43:36 First generation owners have no playbook

    48:10 Get it in writing

    49:30 Change orders are where people get burned

    51:08 If it is too good to be true

    52:27 Documentation ends disputes

    55:46 Do not compare yourself to highlight reels

    56:38 Work on the business, not in it

    57:45 What success actually means

    58:42 Clients are emotional beings

    1:00:34 Give yourself grace

    Guest: Charlie Genin, owner and general contractor at The Gen Group Construction, L.L.C. in Lafayette, Louisiana. gengrouphomes.com

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    1 ora e 4 min
  • Why Good Builders Stay Invisible (Ep 19)
    Aug 26 2026

    When your business gets quiet, people notice. And they do not assume you are fine. They assume something is wrong.

    Bobby Mink makes the case that visibility is the most underrated competitive advantage a business has right now, and that it is not a marketing problem. It is a leadership one. Every week you are either building confidence or creating uncertainty, and silence communicates just as loudly as words.

    Bobby walks through seven reasons visibility matters, from the fact that your customer's first visit is almost always digital, to why teaching beats selling, to why one viral post will never do what a consistent weekly one will. Along the way he shares the division president who asked him the question that sums the whole thing up: why did we wait until things got slow to start doing this?

    If you are good at what you do but bad at telling anyone about it, this one is for you.

    Seven reasons visibility is your most underrated competitive advantage:

    1. Your customer's first visit is digital

    2. Going quiet looks like you're struggling

    3. Visibility builds trust before you need it

    4. Teach more than you sell

    5. Video makes your business human

    6. Consistency beats intensity

    7. Visibility creates opportunity

    "Visibility becomes influence. Influence becomes trust. Trust becomes opportunity. Opportunity becomes growth. And that is how great businesses are built."

    Chapters:

    00:00 Cold open: why did we wait until things got slow?

    00:25 Welcome and the seven reasons

    01:10 Why most companies are bad at telling their own story

    02:06 Visibility is not marketing, visibility is leadership

    02:38 1. Your customer's first visit is digital

    03:23 Knowing your target market

    04:12 Your digital front doors

    04:50 The division president who wished he had not waited

    05:58 2. Going quiet looks like you're struggling

    06:41 The real struggle is consistency

    07:26 Confidence attracts confidence

    08:09 3. Visibility builds trust before you need it

    09:22 The trust account and third party validation

    10:29 Start the conversation where they already are

    11:02 4. Teach more than you sell

    12:11 Every business should become an educator

    13:31 Introduce your team, be real people

    14:28 Raving fans, inside and outside

    15:36 Teach your industry and become the expert

    16:04 5. Video makes your business human

    17:04 Show the space, show the process

    17:33 Perfection is not required

    18:32 Authenticity wins

    19:14 6. Consistency beats intensity

    19:44 One viral post will not change your business

    20:25 Business growth comes from consistency

    21:44 7. Visibility creates opportunity

    22:28 Better employees find you

    23:06 New partners and referrals

    23:26 Better vendors and better opportunities

    25:28 Visibility is leadership

    26:22 The state of the company talk

    28:38 Visibility is not ego, visibility is service

    29:59 The better question to ask before you post

    30:43 Influence, trust, opportunity, growth

    31:37 Close and how to reach Bobby

    Mentioned in this episode:

    Raving Fans, by Ken Blanchard and Sheldon Bowles

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    33 min