What happens when everyone depends on you, but almost nobody asks whether you are okay? AFJ explores family pressure, financial responsibility, migration, diaspora expectations, emotional exhaustion and the hidden burden of always being the strong one.

Chapter Two of AFJRealTalk examines what happens when love becomes connected to responsibility, emergencies and the fear of disappointing the people who depend on you.

For people living away from home, migration can create a difficult contradiction. Family may see opportunity, a stronger currency and evidence that you are doing well, while you are dealing with rent, work, immigration pressures, loneliness, financial obligations and the private reality of trying to build a life of your own.

How do you support the people you love without disappearing underneath their needs? Can you feel grateful and overwhelmed at the same time? And what happens when being useful becomes such a large part of your identity that people remember your strength but overlook its cost?

Because sometimes the person everyone calls for help is quietly wondering who they are allowed to call.

What is a weight you carry that people around you rarely see?

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