EP #31 | Geno and Ali Schmelzer explore the complexities of supporting each other's dreams and goals within a marriage. They discuss the unique challenges couples face, including personality differences, logistical issues, and the importance of communication.

They discuss the balance between traditional roles and modern expectations, the significance of understanding each other's strengths, and the necessity of joint mission in a relationship.

“Husbands don’t just want their wives to be proud, they want them to be impressed.”

Takeaways

(1) Every couple faces unique challenges in supporting each other's dreams.

(2) Understanding personality types can enhance communication and collaboration.

(3) It's a dance of give and take, not a strict 50-50 balance.

EP #30 | Geno Schmelzer addresses the feelings of overwhelm that often accompany the Christmas season and offers 2 simple questions to help listeners focus on what truly matters. By narrowing down priorities and embracing limitations, listeners can find clarity and momentum to accomplish their objectives even during their busiest times of year.

Question #1: What’s Most Important To Me Long Term?

Question #2: What Can I Realistically Do Today?

Takeaways:

(1) Identify what's most important to you long-term.

(2) Focus on one key goal to reduce overwhelm.

(3) Let go of distractions that don't serve your main goal.

(4) Real activity today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow.

(5) Perfectionism can hinder progress; take action instead.

(6) Work expands to fill the time you give it.

(7) Embrace limitations as a catalyst for creativity.

(8) Momentum builds as you take action on your goals.

(9) You have the ability to overcome overwhelm even in busy seasons.

EP #29 | Geno Schmelzer explores the reasons behind our struggles with thankfulness and gratitude. He identifies 6 key enemies of thankfulness: unfair comparisons, unfulfilled plans, unrealistic expectations, an unrelenting pace, uneasy hearts, and unsurrendered anger.

By understanding these 6 enemies of our thankfulness, we are all better equipped to fight them and become more thankful and thereby more joyful in our lives.

Takeaways:

• (1) Thankfulness is a core component of joyfulness and happiness.

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  (2) Unfair comparisons can rob us of our joy and thankfulness.

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  (3) Unfulfilled plans can overshadow our ability to appreciate what we have.

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  (4) Perfectionism can lead us to unrealistic expectations that hinder thankfulness.

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  (5) Slowing down can help us appreciate the beauty in our lives.

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  (6) An uneasy heart filled with anxiety makes it hard to be thankful.

  
  

• (7) Anger and unforgiveness block our ability to feel thankfulness.

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In this episode, Geno Schmelzer explores the 6 kinds of friendships that every man needs. He categorizes friendships into brothers, buddies, allies, soldiers, captains, and generals, each serving a unique role in a man's life.

The discussion highlights the necessity of having a diverse friendship portfolio to meet various emotional and practical needs, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own relationships and seek out the connections they may be missing.

Takeaways:

Brothers provide support and loyalty.

Buddies provide fun and relaxation.

Allies help in achieving shared goals and missions.

Soldiers help accomplish specific tasks.

Captains guide and lead others in the mission.

Generals serve as mentors and role models.

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In this episode Geno Schmelzer explores the question, how do I become more resilient? He emphasizes the importance of creating impediments to harm that protect our world of family, friends, teams, possessions, and more.

He discusses practical strategies for building resilience, including making preparations fun, taking a slow approach, budgeting for emergencies, involving family, and fostering community connections.

The conversation highlights the need for both inner and outer resilience, encouraging listeners to take actionable steps towards becoming more resilient in their personal, spiritual, and family lives.

Takeaways:

Resilience is about creating barriers to harm.

Financial preparedness is crucial for resilience.

Involving the whole family in building resilience is wise.

Inner resilience is as important as outer resilience.

Creating impediments to harm helps lead to a flourishing life.

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In this episode Geno Schmelzer and guest Jeremiah Wooldridge discuss the recent presidential election results, celebrating Trump's victory and reflecting on the future of the Republican and Democrat Parties, the economy, social issues, and more…

They analyze voter turnout trends, the future of media, and the potential impact on the Supreme Court. The conversation also touches on the importance of free speech and the spiritual significance of the election outcome, concluding with thoughts on personal aspirations for the next four years.

Takeaways:

The Republican Party is positioned for a strong future with Trump and Vance.

The Democratic Party faces challenges and uncertainty after the election.

President Trump's re-election has positive effects on the future of the Supreme Court.

Christians and conservatives everywhere need to make the most of this upcoming season of peace and freedom.

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In this episode of the Can I Ask You a Question podcast, Geno Schmelzer explores the delicate balance between honoring the past and innovating for the future.

Through engaging storytelling and insightful analysis, he discusses the importance of respecting historical legacies while remaining open to change. Key themes include the necessity of discernment between form and function, establishing a clear vision for the future, and the courage required to embrace innovation.

Takeaways:

Questions unlock wisdom.

Honoring the past is essential for innovation.

Discerning between form and function is key.

Clear vision is necessary for future success.

Effective communication is vital in the innovation process.

Combining old and new can lead to the best outcomes.

Breakthroughs often lie on the other side of courage.

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In this episode, host Geno Schmelzer engages in a lighthearted yet insightful conversation with his friend Jeremiah Wooldridge, covering a range of topics from investing in your 20s to the impact of social media on younger generations.

They discuss the importance of self-investment, the complexities of tariffs, predictions for the upcoming 2024 election, and their views on Elon Musk, abolishing the electoral college, and what men really want in a woman.

The conversation also touches on the balance between fitness and enjoying life, as well as dating advice for young men, emphasizing the importance of finding a woman you respect.

Takeaways:

Investing in yourself is crucial for long-term success.

Social media can desensitize individuals to real-world issues.

Men want more defined roles in relationships.

The electoral college has served an integral part in our governing system for over 200 years.

Elon Musk's influence on free speech is significant.

Don't rush into relationships; take your time to find the right one.

A good man can attract a partner who is more attractive than he believes he deserves.

Fitness goal should be tailored to support your overall life goals/mission.