Loving others can be hard — especially when they hurt us or are hard to understand. In this episode, we take a fresh look at 1 Corinthians 13 and discover what love really looks like in the life of the church and in everyday relationships.

We explore Paul’s metaphor of the body (1 Corinthians 12) and unpack the surprising way Jesus loved Judas — faithfully, even knowing he would betray Him. This episode shows that love isn’t just sentiment or emotion; it’s patient, kind, selfless, and guided by Christ.

Tune in for a practical, devotional reminder that love governs our actions, shapes our relationships, and sets the standard for how we live as believers.

This episode was originally published under the podcast Before We Speak, now part of Called to Transform.

Read along: https://calledtotransform.com/2026/02/16/loving-others-isnt-always-easy/

What if the most important things in your life aren’t the things you spend the most time on?

In this episode, we take a closer look at what it means to live with eternity in view—especially in our relationships. While it’s easy to focus on tasks, success, or comfort, Scripture calls us to prioritize people, love with a Christlike perspective, and practice forgiveness without limits.

This reflection explores how our priorities, our love, and our forgiveness all take on deeper meaning when we remember that people are eternal.

This episode was originally published under the podcast Before We Speak, now part of Called to Transform.

Read along at:

https://calledtotransform.com/2026/04/13/why-relationships-matter/

The resurrection of Jesus Christ changed everything—but most days don’t feel that different.

In this episode, we explore what it means to live in light of Easter beyond a single Sunday. From ongoing transformation to simple, daily steps, this is a look at how the truth of the resurrection continues to shape our lives.

This episode was originally published under the podcast Before We Speak, now part of Called to Transform.

Read along at:

https://calledtotransform.com/2026/04/06/easter-every-day/

What if separating truth and love is actually what creates harm in our relationships? In this episode, we explore how speaking truth in love—where love is the engine and truth is the fuel—can transform your conversations and relationships.

This episode was originally published under the podcast Before We Speak, now part of Called to Transform.

https://calledtotransform.com/2026/03/30/truth-or-love-its-the-wrong-question/

Have you ever noticed that some of your most honest and important conversations… never actually happen? What would change if you actually had them? In this episode, we explore why we rehearse conversations in our heads, why it feels safer to avoid them, and what it takes to turn those private monologues into real, meaningful dialogue.

This episode was originally published under the podcast Before We Speak, now part of Called to Transform.

https://calledtotransform.com/2026/03/23/the-conversation-youve-already-had-just-not-with-them/

Is avoiding conflict actually peaceful? Or is it just easier in the moment? In this episode, we unpack the hidden dangers of conflict avoidance, why unresolved issues tend to grow over time, and how honest, humble conversations can lead to healthier relationships.

This episode was originally published under the podcast Before We Speak, now part of Called to Transform.

https://calledtotransform.com/2026/03/16/avoiding-conflict-isnt-peace-its-pride/

Do you ever struggle to know whether someone is being manipulative or genuinely hurt? How do you respond in that moment? In this episode, Tracey explores why giving others the benefit of the doubt may be the wiser starting point.

This episode was originally published under the podcast Before We Speak, now part of Called to Transform.

https://calledtotransform.com/2026/03/09/the-cost-of-dismissing-hurt/

Do you struggle with being both direct and kind in your communication? In this episode of Before We Speak, we explore why clarity doesn’t have to come across as harsh and how empathetic directness can strengthen your conversations. Through practical principles and real-life examples, you’ll learn simple ways to communicate more clearly and kindly.

What you'll learn:

• Why direct communication is often misunderstood
• The difference between blunt and kind clarity
• Key principles for empathetic directness
• Real-life examples of indirect vs. clear communication
• Simple phrases you can start using today

This episode was originally published under the podcast Before We Speak, now part of Called to Transform.

Read along at:

https://calledtotransform.com/2026/02/23/how-to-be-direct-without-being-unkind/