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  • Mady Maio and LOVE, ACTUALLY, or why we all deserve a Karl of our very own

    Mady Maio and LOVE, ACTUALLY, or why we all deserve a Karl of our very own
    Dec 19 2025

    Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Mady Maio, as we debate the sex lives of characters from LOVE, ACTUALLY.

    Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language

    Spoiler Alerts for the following:
    LOVE, ACTUALLY (2003)

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    Camber


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    Special thanks:
    Theme - Alex Heller
    Logo - Lauren Airriess
    Tech Support - John Petaja

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    But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
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    36 min
  • Paige Harbison and THE HOLIDAY, or why we're all horny for that f-cking cottage

    Paige Harbison and THE HOLIDAY, or why we're all horny for that f-cking cottage
    Dec 5 2025

    Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Paige Harbison, as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE HOLIDAY.

    Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language

    Spoiler Alerts for the following:
    THE HOLIDAY (2006)

    Find Paige online:
    Instagram
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    Website
    Nameless Best Friends Pod


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    Special thanks:
    Theme - Alex Heller
    Logo - Lauren Airriess
    Tech Support - John Petaja

    Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
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    More information on the podcast can be found here.

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    But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
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    35 min
  • Haley Renken and HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS, or why Ben can find your clit, but not your heart

    Haley Renken and HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS, or why Ben can find your clit, but not your heart
    Nov 21 2025

    Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Haley Renken, as we debate the sex lives of characters from HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS.

    Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language

    Spoiler Alerts for the following:
    HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS (2003)

    Find Haley online:
    Instagram
    TikTok


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    Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
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    Special thanks:
    Theme - Alex Heller
    Logo - Lauren Airriess
    Tech Support - John Petaja

    Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
    Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!
    More information on the podcast can be found here.

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    But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
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    32 min
  • Elizabeth Hughes and Star Wars, or why we should all be looking for our own Obi-Wan Kenobi

    Elizabeth Hughes and Star Wars, or why we should all be looking for our own Obi-Wan Kenobi
    Nov 14 2025

    Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Elizabeth Hughes as we debate the sex lives of characters from the Star Wars Universe.

    Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language

    Spoiler Alerts for the following:
    STAR WARS in general, but specifically:
    A New Hope (1977)
    The Empire Strikes Back (1980)
    Return of the Jedi (1983)
    The Phantom Menace (1999)
    Attack of the Clones (2002)
    Revenge of the Sith (2005)

    Elizabeth's Recommendations:
    Fanfic:
    Four Days to Bespin by Leela Starsky
    metanoia by beskars
    Novels:
    Lost Stars by Claudia Gray
    Leia: Princess of Alderaan by Claudia Gray
    Eyes Like Stars by Ashley Poston (preorder)


    Find me:
    Website
    Instagram
    TikTok
    Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
    Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!
    Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!

    Special thanks:
    Theme - Alex Heller
    Logo - Lauren Airriess
    Tech Support - John Petaja

    Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
    Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!
    More information on the podcast can be found here.

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    But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
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    31 min
  • Leigh Bardugo, and fantasy villains of the 80's, or why the bad guy always gets the best lines

    Leigh Bardugo, and fantasy villains of the 80's, or why the bad guy always gets the best lines
    Oct 31 2025

    Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Leigh Bardugo as we debate the sex lives of 80's fantasy villains.

    Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
    Spoiler Alerts for the following:
    LABYRINTH (1986)
    LEGEND (1985)
    LADYHAWKE (1985)
    INTERVIEW WITH THE VAMPIRE Novel (1976)
    THE VAMPIRE LESTAT Novel (1985)


    Find Leigh online:
    Website
    Instagram

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    Find me:
    Website
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    TikTok
    Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
    Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!
    Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!

    Special thanks:
    Theme - Alex Heller
    Logo - Lauren Airriess
    Tech Support - John Petaja

    Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
    Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!
    More information on the podcast can be found here.

    And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners.

    But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
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    33 min
  • Candice Lim and THE GILMORE GIRLS, and who's the real sexual icon of Stars Hollow

    Candice Lim and THE GILMORE GIRLS, and who's the real sexual icon of Stars Hollow
    Oct 24 2025

    Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Candice Lim as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE GILMORE GIRLS

    Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
    Spoiler Alerts for the following:
    THE GILMORE GIRLS (2000-2007)

    Find Candice online:
    Website
    Instagram

    Find me:
    Website
    Instagram
    TikTok
    Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
    Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!
    Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!

    Special thanks:
    Theme - Alex Heller
    Logo - Lauren Airriess
    Tech Support - John Petaja

    Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
    Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!
    More information on the podcast can be found here.

    And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners.

    But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
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    35 min
  • Charlotte Luce and THE MUMMY, or what's the *real* treasure under the sand

    Charlotte Luce and THE MUMMY, or what's the *real* treasure under the sand
    Oct 17 2025

    Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Charlotte Luce as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE MUMMY

    Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
    Spoiler Alerts for the following:
    The Mummy (1999)

    Find Charlotte online:
    Instagram
    Check out TryQuinn here!


    Find me:
    Website
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    Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
    Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!
    Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!

    Special thanks:
    Theme - Alex Heller
    Logo - Lauren Airriess
    Tech Support - John Petaja

    Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
    Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!
    More information on the podcast can be found here.

    And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners.

    But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
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    33 min
  • Amanda Jane Stern and THE PRINCESS BRIDE, or how to use that sixth finger for good, not evil

    Amanda Jane Stern and THE PRINCESS BRIDE, or how to use that sixth finger for good, not evil
    Oct 10 2025

    Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Amanda Jane Stern as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE PRINCESS BRIDE

    Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
    Spoiler Alerts for the following:
    The Princess Bride (1987)

    Find Amanda online:
    Website
    Instagram
    BlueSky
    Letterboxd
    Check out PERFECTLY GOOD MOMENT here!


    Find me:
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    Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
    Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!
    Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!

    Special thanks:
    Theme - Alex Heller
    Logo - Lauren Airriess
    Tech Support - John Petaja

    Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
    Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!
    More information on the podcast can be found here.

    And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners.

    But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
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    33 min